Narcissistic boyfriend blocked me off everything, after I confronted him cheating, why has he done this?

[Anonymous]

I found out my narcissistic boyfriend was cheating on me and confronted him. He didn’t even say anything. He just blocked me off everything. I’m so angry about it, he’s cheated on me, said nothing and blocked me like I’m the problem. What can I do?

I hate him for it and I don’t understand why. He is also narcissistic, he lies, blames everyone for everything, plays victim and criticises everything. I’m so glad he’s out of my life now but I want to ask this for closure. Is it some messed up game he’s trying to play? Punish me because I’ve confronted him about cheating or that’s it? Do you think he will unblock me? I feel like it’s to get a reaction, I don’t know but I just want move forward

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

Yes, he’s blocked you to make you angry and chase after him. This is absolutely a manipulation tactic to pull you back into his life. I know you’re frustrated and upset, but when it comes to narcissists, closure is overrated. It would piss him off that much more if you just forget he ever existed and acted like he never mattered - which he shouldn’t bc he cheated on you and manipulated you and you were obviously unhappy in the relationship anyway. Narcissists will never apologize in a way that matters, if they admit to any faults that doesn’t mean they’re going to change and it’s more likely they only do so to gain something. I know it’s hard, and you have every right to be angry, but you’re better off without him and better off ignoring him, give him no attention of any kind and you can watch him unravel for being ignored.

[Paris13]

Thank God-----He blocked you Now. You are Rid of a Loser who was Nothing but a cheater and he didn't Think he'd get Caught but have his Cake and Take it Two. He ended it Because he KNEW you WOULD. Easier than Lying to your face. Move on and Do NOT----Take him back. xxoo

[Paris13]

Thanks to Gag. xxoo

[In_Trance]

why is he still your boyfriend? You should be angry at yourself

[mandyfire98]

Take it as a win that he's a narcissist and not trying to come back and gaslight you and relentless try to get back together because normally that's what true narcissists do. You dodged a major bullet with him just going away like that. Count yourself lucky he's gone and go have fun and do things you want to do and haven't been able to do. Good riddance to him.

[Softlife808]

So he's a narcissist because he doesn't want you? You sound delusional and need to move on. You're not a doctor who can diagnose an individual.