My ex wants to see my dog. Should I let her or is it just an excuse to make up?

[civic]

Well, I'm not trying to be hopeful but why would she want to see my dog?

[Cynicaldreamer]

Honestly, and this is just me talking? I'd just want to see the dog, not the ex, LOL. I would ask the ex to just drop the dog off at my place or let me watch it for the day so I could see it and spend time with it, and he could get it back when I'm done spending time with it.

I know the last guy I liked had the best dog! I would dogsit it all the time for him if he let me! I missed the dog more than him when we stopped talking, haha. But realistically would I ask him to see it? NO. That's unhealthy and weird. The only circumstance I might not see that as weird is if you both got it together while dating and she's used to it... then yeah, detaching herself from it might be hard.

It could be a trap, but ask yourself: how close was she to the dog before you broke up? If she was close, spoiled it, and spent a lot of time with it? Yeah, she probably genuinely does want to see it! Test this by offering to let her see the dog... like drop it off or let her come get it... but don't let her in your place at all (no temptation on either part). You are in no way involved or speak to her unless it's about the dog.

If not? Well then it's a trap.

[Boomchakalaca]

Of course it's an excuse.


U let them into ur home and they play/compliment the dog, then what do y'all do after?

[D_Bone_Steak]

An excuse to makeup. That is literally my guttural reaction to this scenario.

And I've been there... I've watched chicks switch from something similar to a dog to trying to go full seduction mode on me in a matter of seconds. I don't know how strong your will is... but for me... when a chick wants to suck my wang, I start to have a hard time trying to say no. A really hard throbbing pulsating hard time.

If your convection is to get rid of her for good... don't do it. Give the dog if you have to. If you're hoping she comes back on her knees... well, here it is.

[OlderAndWiser]

Some people do get attached to animals, but the secret desire to reconcile is a strong possibility.

[AviatorTom]

She may just miss the dog, but don't do it. It would not be good for you, her, or the dog.

[Paris13]

Both, Of course. xxoo

[OfMiceandMen]

It could very well be she just wants to see the dog. People get attached to animals and I would actually suggest the same thing with an ex, if they didn't mind me picking the pet up to go to the park.

[peedy]

Some people go to court over pets just like kids they are stuck in the middle and still love both sides
Don't use them as a weapon to get back at the other person like a lot of people do

[Pegases]

No, leave her in the past, or give her the dog. The dog is her was back in, so if you entertain it, that's what's coming. I say move forward.

[bolverk]

Let her see the dog,

Just not in your home, the local dog park, anywhere but your home,

Be polite but indifferent to her, if she asks about 'making' up make it clear that's a non-starter.

[In_Trance]

It's an excuse

[Nikki1989]

There is only one way to find out.

[Twalli]

People like dogs. If you ever do online dating you'll get more matches if you have photos of you with your dog (s).

[Pinay_ako]

Yea it’s an excuse to see you

[Anonymous]

Who knows? But i’d use it as an excuse to see theguy

[SoJust]

i think so you this is not let , your relationship with him is over

[Ophiel]

It's an excuse. If you've made up your mind make a clean break otherwise it will be more painful (even if just for her). Cruel to be kind.

[CrimsonAngel09]

Because she broke up with you, not the dog.

[Anonymous]

That happened to me once. He brought a bed bug.

[hIopinionated_]

Omg😮

[Spade_01]

It's obviously an excuse.

[annabananna]

It’s an excuse to see you.

[LovrUFFAllls]

Woof Woof
Meow Meow

[Anonymous]

Because the dog is like a child to some people

[hammeronfire]

Nah bro, I wouldn’t