My ex has found someone new 3 months after the end of our 3.5 year relationship and has been in love with her for 7 months, did our love mean nothing?

[Anonymous]

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He broke up with me… Wasn’t he supposed to miss me at some point?

[Summeroflove]

It just means he moved on. You can’t be angry that he found someone new. The relationship was over.

[slatyb]

It's over and he met someone new. That's what people do.

[OlderAndWiser]

So you broke up about a year ago?

[Asker]

10 months ago.

[OlderAndWiser]

Maybe him missing you was in your plans, but clearly not in his plans. The fact that he found someone new doesn’t mean that your love meant nothing; it just means that your relationship has ended and he has moved forward. Why haven’t you moved forward?

[Anarcamus]

https://www.reddit.com/r/UnsentLetters/comments/13j27hd/its_a_pipe_dream/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=android_app&utm_name=androidcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

[MementoMori777]

3 months is enough for someone to move on, just cause you didn't doesn't mean he didn't either

[dudeinohio]

Some people get over their exes quickly. A week after my breakup with my ex, I had a first date with my now fiancee.

[shades777]

3 monthes is plenty time to hit the refresh button, for some men it doesn't take that long, in my younger days I could a find a new girl by tomorrow.

[Spade_01]

Not necessarily. It means that he moved on.

[Sparkie460]

Some guys move on more quickly than others.