When you break up, do you usually make up?

[DubiousIntentions]

Break up for good or make up? Tell us about it.

Break up and send them on their way

make up

what do you do?

[TruthBringer]

That's something children do which adults should not. A break up is a serious thing. If you can't stand each other now, you won't stand each other later. So what's the point in getting back? To end up breaking up yet again like so many people who went down that path? Nah, a break up is once and for all. I'd much rather spend that energy and time to find someone who I am actually compatible with. Thankfully, I did.

[DubiousIntentions]

Bravo!

[lightbulb27]

both. it's a waste of time without examining what is going on and making changes and communicating well followed by establishing new patterns.

whomever came up with the idea of two humans pair bonding with very different brains is completely nuts... or has some dubious intentions.

[kylee2437]

Depends on the person. I have an ex that I am social media acquaintances with and that is because I came to terms that his lifestyle is not compatible with me personally but I did have faults as well back when me and him were dating. My recent ex will be blocked forever since he’s abusive

[Daniela1982]

Not a good judge of men, eh?

[kylee2437]

@daniela1982 my last ex I got into a relationship during Covid and didn’t realize his habits , and my ex I’m kind of friends with I was 19 and stupid

[Daniela1982]

We are all stupid at one time or other. So you are not alone at least.

[kylee2437]

Absolutely so far I currently have a better man in my life so I’m thankful

[Bethany22]

I voted A. I break up amicably but don't talk to them again. As much as I'm not mad at them, a piece of me still is angry at the fact that they weren't the one, and that they shouldn't get any privileges after breakup.

[TruthBringer]

You have every right to feel angry if the person was leading you on and has been putting up a façade from the start. It's one thing to discover a person is not it and another to discover it while also realizing they were playing a persona to get what they want.

[Vesuvius87]

At this point if it leads to a break-up, then that's it for me. There is no ''maybe we can be friends'' anymore. No, we're not friends. I want ALL (full commitment) or NOTHING.

[Sixgunsound]

Once it's over you're dead to me there's no reason to continue having any kind of involvement

[Anonymous]

One I am still close with and just family and friends forever and the most recent one I would not go back but we try to be civil for I was the dumper. hahahaha

[Fireguy17]

A couple of time we made up and got back together.
The majority of the time it is just time to move on.

[shades777]

Depends on what for, if its fixable then you can make up

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend broke up with me but we made up. He almost broke up with me again but we made up.

[DubiousIntentions]

Seems to me there is a limit on that. Four times and you are out for good.

[exitseven]

There is a reason why they are ex girlfriends.

[DubiousIntentions]

So you didn't make up then?

[Andres77]

Depends on the relationship, with whom

[douride2]

When I break up it's over.

[Redstang88]

I’m never given the option 🤷‍♂️

[LiamJHayden]

To date I have never.

[dudeinohio]

They are gone forever.

[msc545]

Break up, say goodbye. Thats it.

[strateguy632]

never

[Aces8]

There's a reason it didn't work out

[Anonymous]

Send them. Away