Me and this guy have been dating for a couple months, for context his father passed away this march. weve kept pushing aside rhe conversation topic of "is having a relationship wise when your still grieving" because we thought as long as he could be vulnerable with his feelings and i was there to care for him eveyrhting would be alright. also for context, i also lost a family member to cancer as well. Anyways, our relationship was the definition of perfect and one day we call and he tells me that he still can't shake the feeling that he can't provide everything i deserve emotionaly because of what he's dealing with. weve been on a break for four days since that conversation and are meeting tomorrow to discuss if this break is permanent or temporary. Do i go into it hoping to stay? should i stay friends with him if we break up? i have no clue what to do. because technically he didn't do anything wrong. he is just dealing with grief. but he was an amazing boyfriend nonetheless
Do we take a break or breakup?
