Can I please have some encouraging words right now? And please show me some good way to move on faster?

[Anonymous]

I’m going through my biggest heartbreak. I cry and cry everyday, no matter what i do, i just couldn’t seem to move on.
I’ve tried everything i could, i pray everyday but the feelings are still there. It’s haunting me. I’m hurting so much.
Please show me how to accept and move on with my life. I’m scared i would always have him in my heart and i don’t want it.
They always said having a big heart is a blessing, but for me it’s a curse because it only caused me so much pain.
I don’t need him to come back. I don’t need anything from him. I don’t need him to love me. I don’t want any revenge. I just need me to forget all about him and don’t feel hurt anymore.
I really wish that the next morning when i wake up, i won’t remember anything about him. I wish i’ve never met him. I don’t want to hurt no more.
I’m bawling my eyes out when writing this. I’m so broken. Please tell me that the pain won’t last forever. I really need some encouraging words right now. Thank you.

[Changiis07]

I'm sorry you are going through this pain, we have all been there. I know that it's easier said but time does heal. It takes time to feel like yourself again and it takes time to start forgetting about them. I mean we never do forget about them but it gets easier until you get to meet someone else. You might just need some distractions, and if you deleted any old pics, text and convos it gets easier to move on as well as it helps to not go back and think of all the good memories. So yes they pain won't last and in life we all have our ups and downs and it also helps to cry it all out until you're tired of crying. So try to get out, go on a walk, meet new people or just hang out with your friends and family as that helps a lot

[Asker]

Thank you ❤️ i hope that day will come soon.

[kareenakapur]

Girl i was in your spot like a month ago. One day you will wake up and babe you will feel happy again. doesn't feel like you ever will but you will. Ngl thing that helped me was getting attention from other guys loll. I don't know if thats the right answer. But when i became single, started posting hot selfies in crop tops. Million guys in my dm’s now. I am big supporter of best way to get over someone is to get under someone lol. But im actually psychotic. You’ll find someone who makes you happy again. he's the only thing on your mind rn. he never deserved your heart if he broke it. The pain is temporary. Will eat you alive. Put you in a dark place. I legit didn't want to live anymore last month was so hurt. Today im a sexy ass girl so many guys want me. I m living my best life. Fuck him. Go have fun. Or find someone who treats you better. I don't know if that is words of encouragement let me know.

[Asker]

Thank you so much ❤️. I’m waiting for this to happen to me soon. You go girl

[kareenakapur]

It will. Go hang w the girls. Go to the gym. Wear sexy clothes lol. Distract urself

[In_Trance]

It won't last forever. Do your thing; go out with friends, hobbies etc. Get your mind off of it

[Asker]

Yes i’m trying

[Anonymous]

no, i'm sorry, you can't move on faster... that would just make yourself not feel and not give yourself time to heal. you will be pushing feelings away. which will actually be worse for you and prolong it. as you can see, praying doesn't do anything. it's about YOU and when YOU, your mind, your body, are ready. which you are not yet. eventually this chapter will close and you will move on. it will happen because that's how life works.

[Asker]

You’re right. I just hope it hurts less everyday

[Opinion Owner]

it will. there will be days where it hurts less, and then another day it will hurt more, but eventually it'll go away

[CrimsonAngel09]

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[Asker]

I’m trying so hard

[KrakenAttackin]

Suck it up.

[Asker]

Easier said than done

[KrakenAttackin]

Pretty much every human goes through this and every human has to find their way through it. This is not a unique experience.

[Asker]

Thank you. I’m trying