Have you ever tried to go to the house of an ex you broke up with months ago?

[candycane]

Just out of curiosity, have you ever gone to the house of an ex you broke up with months ago to see him/her? Is it possible to repair the relationship in this way?

[lightbulb27]

you broke up but want him back? having trouble resolving what went wrong, why, don't like lonely?

I drove by, didn't stop. I'd see her at church, didn't stop by. Had restarted many times and didn't want to do that again.

I think that's a bad idea since you don't know what they have going on. would you like your X knocking on your door when you have your new boyfriend over? Depends on scenario.

you can send a message, email or call... maybe. And get some help processing what happened.

[razelove]

No, but I've had exes come over to "talk" and had sex more times than I can count. Generally the dividing line is if they break up, it wasn't anything malicious, and now they want to be casual with no guilt or anything, ok. If they get buyer's remorse after coming over for a lay, or try to guilt trip me, well, it's a good-bye fuck then.

[comekitty]

I have never done this but I've never had a past relationship I wanted to repair either.

[Drumlin2001]

No. I've been pretty good at walking away. I delete number after a week and move on.
If you were the dumper, maybe you could talk your way back in. But if the dumpee, you're better off accepting it. It would look a little stalkerish

[Adam1978]

No I would have cleared out my stuff a long time ago. So no reason to return. Anything forgotten can't be important.

[boggboss]

Would depend on the people and the reason it needed

[boggboss]

Ended

[shades777]

Yea I noticed the double standards in stalker behavior, a woman does it its talking, when a man does it it's restraining order.


A ex comes over and Im like what hell do you want, sigh...

[Blueeyes81]

Sounds stalkerish. I'd be none to pleased to find an ex waiting on my doorstep.

[andreasderjuengere]

The opposite, rather :)