Would you go to your ex’s wedding? Why or why not?

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provokeesmokee · Accepted Answer

My first two exes, nah. Don't think they'll be marrying anytime soon anyways, lmao.

My third, absolutely.
We were each other's first gfs and she learned a lot about herself in the short time we were together. Enough for me to recognize we were a bad match.

But we're friends and I value her happiness. If she wanted me there, I'd be happy to be there.

We ended things amicably and I know someone else out there will make her happier than I could (and viceversa). I'd be happy to see her be able to make that deep connection with someone who fits her.

pepper1993 · Accepted Answer

I mean it depends on the situation, like if I date a guy for a month and/or we break up and are still on good terms etc.. I would go for sure, assuming I was invited.

But for a serious long term boyfriend, where things ended in a rough way, I 100% wouldn't. I don't have time for people who don't have time for me.

D_Bone_Steak · Accepted Answer

I struggle to remember some of my ex's names. It turns into like a brain puzzle, and I finally figure it out 2 weeks later and then I'll forget it again. I'll play the "remember her name" game a year or so later again. It never gets old.

AviatorTom · Accepted Answer

I thought about going to my ex-wife of 20 years (amicable divorce) wedding, and decided not to... because it might be confusing to some. It's her day as nd I didn't want to affect that.

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I doubt he or his new wife would want me at the wedding or their friends and family would want an ex there. But I would be happy for him and would go to his funeral if I outlived him.

coachTanthony · Answer

Only if she was the mother of my children.

Pinay_ako · Answer

If he invites me yes 😂. I am so over him

Origamileaf · Answer

I'm not opposed to it. As long the breakup wasn't painful and I'm on friendly term with both bride amd groom. With both consent that it'll be fine...

Otherwise I wouldn't attend. It's better to only go if you are familiar with all parties involved. And has good relations with everyone. 😅

MysteriousDarkness · Answer

I would find it odd to be invited in the first place. I haven't seen any of them in over 10 years. I have only talked to one ex in the last 10 years. It was back in 2015 because her mom wanted the dresser my ex had when we were together from 2007-2009. It was gone a year after we broke up since I gave my ex 6 months to get her stuff out and then unbeknown to her another 6 months. If it wasn't for that it would have been over 10 years since I talked to any of my exes.

Twalli · Answer

Depends on why we broke up. If it's a goid breakup, sure. Let's say we broke up because she wanted to have babies with me. I can't do that at all. So we'd break up because of that. If she gets married later, and I'm invited I will attend. We didn't stop loving each other, we still want the other one to be happy, we just weren't able to do it.
Loving someone is wanting what is best for them, whether or not it's with you.

EmmaMary · Answer

Both my husband and I have been to two of my ex's and due to go to a third one later this year. In return two of them have been to my own wedding.

Adam_Badry · Answer

That gonna bring bad feeling in different ways,  She might remember, you might remember, and her husband gonna feel worried, so nope just go and get your own wedding :)

LazerBean · Answer

I don't have any real ex's, but I attended the weddings of all the guys I talked to and they attended mine. One of them was one of my husband's groomsmen. We are all still friends.

molonski2 · Answer

I did and have , went to 3 weddings , not even a remote issue , very happy to get the invites.

TenderFantasy · Answer

Nah it would be too awkard but also maybe depend on the ex. Never really got invited to any of those anyway.

Simslover92 · Answer

Nope. Why would I put myself through that torture? Even if I am over him, it still would feel awkward as hell.

dudeinohio · Answer

My ex wife and I are on good terms. She's attending my wedding in June. If she gets married and invites me, ill go.

None of my other exes have the capability to communicate with me, which is by design.

humanearth · Answer

Yes, I wanted to make sure there was no take backs. No return to sender To say your stuck with her now

exitseven · Answer

nope, I don;t like to go to weddings to begin with and having to watch my ex get married would, just plain suck.

Nikki1989 · Answer

I have been to a couple. Weddings are great fun.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Unless they want me to do something fcked up, it's best I dont show up

Dinklex3 · Answer

Nah. I think that’d be disrespectful to the bride.

Adam1978 · Answer

No she would be out of my life and It's disrespectful to the new husband to even invite me.

CreatingWonders · Answer

My ex getting married? 🤣🤣🤣🤣 oh lord I pity the fool marrying that narcissist.  I wouldn’t go to her wedding I wouldn’t even go to her funeral in fact I’d dance a merry jig that day.

WalnutButter · Answer

No, but that's just because weddings are boring.

bolverk · Answer

No, my Ex is the past, also I would not want to be the 'ghost at the wedding' a reminder to the brides family of what could have been.

NYCQuestions1976 · Answer

What @coachtanthony posted, and also only if our shared children actually  wanted  me there. Otherwise, no.

Drumlin2001 · Answer

Only my kids mother if I had to watch kids. Otherwise I would find it rather odd

Anonymous · Answer

i don't want to go to anyones wedding, let alone an ex. not like i actually have a real ex tho, thankfully.

art84 · Answer

I don't have an ex though she never got married with a wedding in a church, got married in the court house.

Kiran_Yagami · Answer

No, that'd be asinine. However, if I did end up going up to an ex's wedding, I'd bang all her bridesmaids.

DextroShade · Answer

No and they shouldn't even invite an ex to the wedding.

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Fuck no, but I would wish the new guy best luck, he will need it.

Minahh · Answer

Heck no. He hurt me so much that I don't want to see him like ever again.

Anonymous · Answer

I wouldn't have a problem with it on my end. But that would still be weird.

BCA6010 · Answer

No, I would not.

AllAloneInTheWorld · Answer

Nope not even if we were on good terms

qwert1234 · Answer

No, I'm not invited. LOL

TacosRAwesome · Answer

Maybe if I'm invited.

slatyb · Answer

Which one?

itsalyssaagain · Answer

Obviously not.

springxxx · Answer

Lmao no

Blueeyes81 · Answer

Hard pass

Clyde_123 · Answer

Nope

Hispanic-Cool-Guy · Answer

Nope.

In_Trance · Answer

Nope

BLP11520 · Answer

Not a chance

Anonymous · Answer

No, respectful

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