If your ex invited you to their wedding, would you go?

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ohshee · Accepted Answer

For me this is kind of a funny question my ex put me through hell literally through hell one day she calls me up she tells me she's going to be getting married and she wants me to talk to the guy I don't want to talk to the guy she tried to hand him the phone he said no I don't want to talk to you find me we both say okay. He answers the phone I said congratulations and I said dude you don't even understand how happy I am right now I said if I was gay I can give you a blowjob right now that's how happy I am and we both started laughing I was invited but I declined to go but that was one funny moment and now he understands why I said what I said LOL

AdithyaR · Accepted Answer

Absolutely not. Even if it ended amicably, I could only imagine how awkward their partner would feel. Plus the whole thing just seems too awkward to deal with.

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

LOL, he better not if he doesn't want me to make his wedding day a disaster.

Absolutely not!!! Looking back I wouldn't go to any of my exes or former crushes weddings. Not out of jealously, but it would serve no purpose! Yeah, I need a reminder of how they choose someone they deemed than I am to spend their lives with. Yes, how...sweet of them.

Agape93 · Accepted Answer

To expose him to all his friends and family, oh hell yeah.

OlderAndWiser · Answer

If I was invited, it would be as a courtesy and without the actual desire for me to attend, as her daughter severely dislikes me.

MasseurDeMojo · Answer

You go to their wedding out of respect for them as a person, because they invited you. You also have your new partner there with you. This basically lets them know, that you have carried on with your life; and are happy for what they have found.

It also makes sure that their new partner understands that they are no longer on your mind as one to be in a relationship. Finally, doing this gives you closure, and establishes that they are no longer on the market, and you can do what ever you want, with whom ever.

Enjoy!!!

Sincerly_KittyCat · Answer

Depends on the ex if it's an ex that I dont get along with, nope. If it's ex the I am cool with sure why not free food and I could bring a plus one. If it's an ex I am still in love with then no.

No one has to go even if you ended on good or bad terms. I dont like going to weddings regardless so there's that.

Anonymous · Answer

No, I wouldn't go to any of my ex's wedding I had some good relationship and some bad. If our relationship ended, it was because it wasn't meant to be, and I am not going to become my ex's best friend either. When it's over it's over. I have no reason to go to an ex's wedding, as I am not his friend, or relative and I am not friends with the bride or a member of her family.

ArrowheadSW · Answer

There is one ex who I was in touch with for years and we remained good friends. If she had married the guy she was dating after me, I probably would have gone.

Other than that one, I probably wouldn't go.

Starrisunset · Answer

I wouldn't. It would be pretty awkward. I haven't seen him in a few I years so going to something so personal would be really odd. Especially since I never knew his family that well. It would make for a really uncomfortable situation.

designer1 · Answer

I mean if I dated them for like a short time and it didn’t get serious, probably. If we were together in the past for like 1 year or more, probably not.

jamezsexton · Answer

I did. When my ex wife married my best man... what better way to shake his hand and say "she's your problem now!" by the way i unfriended n block both y'all peace ✌

Bee-Hatch · Answer

Well that would be creepy.  "So how do you know the groom?" "I used to have sex with him before he met her"

LemiaOfChampions · Answer

First ex - Probably not because she is currently dating her abusive ex and I would throw up hearing say I do. Second Ex - Most definelty

pleasestopthis · Answer

I wouldn't go because I didn't part on good terms with my ex. I also think it's awkward to go to an ex's wedding and it could make the bride uncomfortable

Haru_chan · Answer

I would go with my new boyfriend. He moved on and so do I.

AgentRED · Answer

Hell no! That’s like your ex rubbing it all in and them thinking they “won” the game of life or something. It’s really stupid idea to be honest.

scentoflavender · Answer

I went to my ex husbands wedding a few months ago. Had a wonderful time.

Miah02 · Answer

Yeah as long as his soon to be wife is cool with me being there.

Omario2049 · Answer

Iif it's an ex that I'm still good with then absolutely. The whole ex thing doesn't bother me, I'm a good communicator so there's usually closure at the end.

andreasderjuengere · Answer

I find weddings boring. But then... free drinks :D

exitseven · Answer

No, I would either be sad or angry. I would go someplace cool that day and have an adventure,

OurManFlint · Answer

If our relationship was sturdy enough for her to extend the invitation then it should be solid enough for me to accept it.

fred_durst · Answer

if you are talking about reception , sure , it sounds fun if you are talking about ceremony , hell , no , it is boring af

JesseTheMan · Answer

Free food and free alcohol is enough for me, I have no shame

Joker_ · Answer

If my ex invited me to her wedding, maybe she's trying to marry me

KrakenAttackin · Answer

Fuck no. I would hate to see the poor bastard who is about to marry that psychotic ball of neurosis.

TallAnon · Answer

Depends if we kept talking, how long it has been and why we broke up.

ChefPapiChulo · Answer

i dont think i'd be able to come up with this question even if i tried

dolemite89 · Answer

There’s a few that i would and i’d be happy for them, the rest of them i couldn’t care less 😂

Slim57 · Answer

I'd go and tell the groom watch out for her she likes to talk to lots of dudes behind your back

Anonymous · Answer

My sister's ex cane to her wedding with his current wife. It was weired. Wonder why she invited him

Alyssa11 · Answer

Absolutely not and whoever said yes is insane lol.

NathanDavis · Answer

I've already been at two of them

loves2learn · Answer

Only if we were still good friends

ChrisMaster69 · Answer

Yep not a problem. would be great for her.

spartan55 · Answer

Definite case by case basis.

davidst123 · Answer

hell no... that would be soo awkward...

Aimée__LJ · Answer

No that would be awkward

JosyJosy · Answer

No we're not that close

RHK36 · Answer

Definitely depends on the ex.

loveslongnails · Answer

I wouldn't be interested in going.

Andres77 · Answer

But I'm not good friends with either.

TheFlak38 · Answer

Im not going to weddings. No matter whose it is.

Sketti2021 · Answer

C... I'd rather eat glass and walk through fire

Iron_Man · Answer

No way

Bklynbadboy12 · Answer

Nope what's the point

JesseJayNeak · Answer

Depends on which one you're talking about

Sambelfast198526 · Answer

If it was a nice slit up then I would consider.

EmbraceThePain · Answer

It really depends

Marhaban-1 · Answer

Only if I was friendly with them

Gwenhwyfar · Answer

Depends which ex

Jamie05rhs · Answer

Yeah. As long as it ended amicably.

chriscdi · Answer

Hell no

douride2 · Answer

Most likely not.

AydenHazor · Answer

Depends on which ex

Nazgol · Answer

Nope. No way

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