Girls, would you invite your ex boyfriend to your wedding?

[Anonymous]

My fiancé wants to invite her ex to our wedding. They remained friends after they broke up. I understand we’re both adults and the past is the past but I do not like the idea at all. They were friends with benefits before they dated. They were together for 3 years. I do not want another man who has seen my fiancé naked there. I don’t want another man who has been inside her at out wedding. It bothers me because I would never invite an ex to our wedding out of respect for her. I feel like this should be our intimate moment but instead her ex still continues to be a part of intimacy with her years later.

[Brainsbeforebeauty]

I agree with you.. And you should explain it to her exactly as you did here... And also remind her it's not just her day, it's both of your's day, so it shouldn't be just what she wants, but what you both want... If she's any kind of good partner, she'll take your feelings into consideration and not just her own.. And if she doesn't? You might want to rethink if this is someone you really want to marry...

[nice-girl]

Absolutely not. This doesn't seem right to me. Of course you are right to not agree with this.

[Anonymous]

I think let her know all of this. If she can't comply she's not for you