I gave this guy a second chance after a bad argument and I’m regretting that decision. I like him but I just feel it in my spirit that it’s not mutual. I tried to get him to admit to it but he just won’t. He also gets mad whenever I say I think his feelings aren’t genuine. I have been thinking about how to go about breaking things off but I already have multiple times and falling for the guilt trip he pulls whenever I do has been my biggest mistake. He just plays innocent or gives excuses about why he can’t take me out, why he doesn’t do nice things, he barely talks to me throughout the day anymore. We both made mistakes but I can’t try to maintain a relationship by myself so I reached this decision that I’m ready to be done for good. More effort on his end could solve every issue but I've grown tired of waiting. Lately when we talk it’s just really dry and boring and Idc anymore. If he is talking to somebody else I just want it to come to light so I can have a valid and tangible reason to leave for good. Of course I accept that it’s been my fault just as much as his because I shouldn’t have taken him back or the obvious answer is that I should just be an adult and break it off and leave it alone regardless of what he says or how he reacts. But I can count about 5 times that I did that already and I came back around feeling guilty each time because I had no evidence. I think I may have pushed him away by breaking up with him at least two times but if that’s the case rather than dragging things on I would like him to just admit that he lost interest. For a few weeks I tried being extra loving and helpful but it’s done nothing to improve this relationship he is still distant. initially I stopped talking to other men and exclusively dated him up until the most recent break. So recently I have started having casual conversations with other guys nothing flirtatious but we talk about tv and news and things like that. I do love him but I’m over it
How do I breakup with this man even though I love him but I’m tired of him?
