Can someone help with this text please I got from my ex. this guy is confusing the hell out of me?

[Anonymous]

The reason you pissed me off yesterday was because I’ve told you so many times that you was not a rebound. I fucked up and I fucked your life up. I don’t want to be in a relationship with anyone and it took me a while to realise that I actually need to be by myself. Unfortunately I did it all wrong and I hurt you and your daughter. Let me know how tomorrow goes. I will be thinking of you!

[RyanK9b]

He wants to stay away but cares about your situation.

[Asker]

Thanks, he drives me insane as he thinks he can turn up at my house. Buy me birthday gifts. But I think it’s time I put my foot down and tell him to do one!

[RyanK9b]

Ah. That's to much. Then it looks like a weird way to get back to you by taking all the blame

[Asker]

Thanks for replying. I don’t understand why he would say he doesn’t want to be in a relationship when he knows how I feel about him. The card he got me for my birthday had sentimental pictures on it from our relationship, when I questioned him about it (nicely) his response was it was a heart warming card. Hence why I’m so confused and coming here to ask guys opinions!