How do I get over heartbreak fast?

[Anonymous]

So I liked this guy and I thought he liked me too. (I don't know if he did ever). We hung out and became closer,,, so I thought. Then he text me he wasn’t looking for anything right now. I just feel so dumb because I shot my shot with him. I just feel so alone. I’m embarrassed I even went for him. it’s hard and it keeps replying over and over in my head. Please help.

[SueShe]

No, don't meet other men as someone suggested. You have to take your mind off men for a while.

If you want to get your mind off a person, then the best thing to do is to get busy with something that will take your mind away from those negative thoughts.

You can take up a hobby or join a club where you share your interests with others. Best of course would be to be among girls only but that is a little more difficult unless you join a women only gym. Strike a conversation with those women and talk about everything but men.

The important is to get your mind off what is preoccupying you and you could best do it with something that requires a lot of brain power such as learning a music instrument because you have to concentrate on the music, on how to place your fingers and hands and not on something else. Good luck.

[Oliverlogan263]

Damn, breakups always suck. Don't be too hard on yourself though - we've all taken shots that didn't work out before.

My best advice is stay busy and distract yourself. Hit the gym extra hard, game with the boys all night, throw yourself into your hobbies - anything to keep your mind off it. Time heals all wounds.

Delete and block him on everything so you're not tempting to stalk his socials. Out of sight, out of mind. And don't be afraid to feel your feelings - let it all out lifting weights or in a round of COD instead of bottling it up.

Soon that fool won't even be a blip on your radar. You'll find someone way better who sees how dope you are. In the meantime, just live your best life and stay positive. This too shall pass! You got this.

[DannyUk2017]

Occupy your time with something else... it will fade away.. it won't be fast but it will happen.

[Avicenna]

meet other guys

[Asker]

I have no where to go to do that. My town is pretty crappy… help lol.

[Avicenna]

Well, there's other ones within an hour's drive, right?

[Joker_]

time heals everything, also drink water and pick up new hobbies

[Gabriel-Chicanito]

Still think ubout other potentials, as well.

[boobliker]

only time will help