It's best to cut ties entirely and move on. Don't keep photos or videos together so you can reminisce about the past. It can also make things a bit complicated when you get into your next relationship and regardless of whether they want to admit it or not, it will most likely make your partner feel at least somewhat uncomfortable. The mature thing to do is make a clean cut, because memories and sexual experiences you had with your ex will always be with you.
If you are considering or are in a relationship/seeing someone it’s best to completely cut ties. For the sake of your current or potential relationship.
The best way to go about it, is ask yourself if it would bother you if the person you’re with or are seeing was still in communication with an ex of theirs. If the answer is yes, then clearly it’s wrong.
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Anonymous
(36-45)
5 mo
Unless she’s giving up the bush, no it’s in a man’s best interest to cut ties w her. Most men stay “friends” w exes because there’s a chance he will still be able to hit that on the side. Not much in the way women can do for men in a friendship.
That will depend on the reasons for the split and how it went down. Suggesting that it's a maturity thing doesn't universally stand up, especially if one partner really does something hurtful or evil to the other. Sometimes you're just better off when someone is out of your life completely.
Cut the ties, because in my opinion a person evolves forward and not backward...
You can't be friends with someone whom you used to love and broke up with, becauwe there is a big reason why both have broken up from each other, they can't act as if nothing had happened while they know that there's a big issue between each other which might include: "suffering, pain, brawls and so many other things..."
Depends on the ex and why they're an ex. My ex wife I remain on good terms with, though I'd like to cut contact, because of my son. She's the only ex with whom I'd like to cut contact though as she was verbally and emotionally abusive to me, but fit my son's sake I keep things civil. The rest of my exes I was good friends with before dating and have been able to maintain a friendship with, some closer than others, after breaking up.
I can never be friends with my exes, we might talk if we see each other someday but other than that no I won't stay connected with them. As for your question I don't think we should stay connected with them especially if the break up was not amicable.
I think it depends. Usually its better to cut ties because one is problaby still with feelings and it can get toxic. But if both have moved on and non of them want to hurt the other one then sure.
Except for one, my break ups with the rest of my exes were peaceful & pleasant.
Clearly, we did not become enemies of some any sort.
That doesn't mean we have to stay in touch.
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Anonymous
(18-24)
5 mo
In my experience, the contact already got cut by time. But I also notice its imposible the stay friends with your exes. Its a fairytale in which a lot of people believe in. There is almost always one of the two who still has feelings for the other, despite they broke up.
I guess it depends for me. i didn't stay friends with my previous exes, i just moved on and left it as that. but i don't think i can remain friends with my boyfriend if he were to be my ex. that would crush me 😭
It's never good to stay friends with your ex. Because there'll always be an expectation there. Once you cross certain lines, you can't go backwards plus it's unfair to the new person you're dating that you're still friends with your ex. How will that make them feel?
It depends on the situation and how the break-up went.
In my case or I didn't want to keep any contact or the other person, so 2 exes are out of friends list :D
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Anonymous
(45 Plus)
5 mo
Depends on the ex. I don't know how to turn off caring about someone. So if we had a good split I'd have no problem staying in contact. Keep in mind that's subject to whomever I'm with though. She has to understand that ends if the partner I'm with doesn't want me to have contact or minimal contact.
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Anonymous
(25-29)
5 mo
I had a friend who always skipped from one relationship to another and she always remained friends with her exses (even when they wanted to try over). We talked about it and her conclusion was that if you ever stayed friends with your ex it probably means you never had strong feelings towards them, because otherwise once it's over it's over and better move on.
Cut ties with them, just to save complications with any new partners and as well you don’t want their new gf’s coming to you as a woman to find out stuff. It can just create drama, I’d move on.
Depends on the person doesn’t it. I’m still friends with my ex. He’s coming to Christmas dinner! I would still be friends with my ex husband if he was allowed…
All beenI think that would all depend upon you and him and where you are in your life in my opinion people cut ties with each other because of feelings whether there mad or hurt if the both of you can look past whatever split y’all up stay friends just make sure nobody is leading on
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It's best to cut ties entirely and move on. Don't keep photos or videos together so you can reminisce about the past. It can also make things a bit complicated when you get into your next relationship and regardless of whether they want to admit it or not, it will most likely make your partner feel at least somewhat uncomfortable. The mature thing to do is make a clean cut, because memories and sexual experiences you had with your ex will always be with you.
If you are considering or are in a relationship/seeing someone it’s best to completely cut ties. For the sake of your current or potential relationship.
The best way to go about it, is ask yourself if it would bother you if the person you’re with or are seeing was still in communication with an ex of theirs. If the answer is yes, then clearly it’s wrong.
Unless she’s giving up the bush, no it’s in a man’s best interest to cut ties w her. Most men stay “friends” w exes because there’s a chance he will still be able to hit that on the side. Not much in the way women can do for men in a friendship.
That will depend on the reasons for the split and how it went down. Suggesting that it's a maturity thing doesn't universally stand up, especially if one partner really does something hurtful or evil to the other. Sometimes you're just better off when someone is out of your life completely.
Cut the ties, because in my opinion a person evolves forward and not backward...
You can't be friends with someone whom you used to love and broke up with, becauwe there is a big reason why both have broken up from each other, they can't act as if nothing had happened while they know that there's a big issue between each other which might include: "suffering, pain, brawls and so many other things..."
Depends on the ex and why they're an ex. My ex wife I remain on good terms with, though I'd like to cut contact, because of my son. She's the only ex with whom I'd like to cut contact though as she was verbally and emotionally abusive to me, but fit my son's sake I keep things civil. The rest of my exes I was good friends with before dating and have been able to maintain a friendship with, some closer than others, after breaking up.
I can never be friends with my exes, we might talk if we see each other someday but other than that no I won't stay connected with them.
As for your question I don't think we should stay connected with them especially if the break up was not amicable.
I think it depends. Usually its better to cut ties because one is problaby still with feelings and it can get toxic. But if both have moved on and non of them want to hurt the other one then sure.
Except for one, my break ups with the rest of my exes were peaceful & pleasant.
Clearly, we did not become enemies of some any sort.
That doesn't mean we have to stay in touch.
In my experience, the contact already got cut by time. But I also notice its imposible the stay friends with your exes. Its a fairytale in which a lot of people believe in. There is almost always one of the two who still has feelings for the other, despite they broke up.
I guess it depends for me. i didn't stay friends with my previous exes, i just moved on and left it as that.
but i don't think i can remain friends with my boyfriend if he were to be my ex. that would crush me 😭
It's never good to stay friends with your ex. Because there'll always be an expectation there. Once you cross certain lines, you can't go backwards plus it's unfair to the new person you're dating that you're still friends with your ex. How will that make them feel?
It depends on the situation and how the break-up went.
In my case or I didn't want to keep any contact or the other person, so 2 exes are out of friends list :D
Depends on the ex. I don't know how to turn off caring about someone. So if we had a good split I'd have no problem staying in contact. Keep in mind that's subject to whomever I'm with though. She has to understand that ends if the partner I'm with doesn't want me to have contact or minimal contact.
I had a friend who always skipped from one relationship to another and she always remained friends with her exses (even when they wanted to try over). We talked about it and her conclusion was that if you ever stayed friends with your ex it probably means you never had strong feelings towards them, because otherwise once it's over it's over and better move on.
It depends, if you end on a good note and you still get along there's no reason to not be friends just because you were together once upon a time.
Cut ties with them, just to save complications with any new partners and as well you don’t want their new gf’s coming to you as a woman to find out stuff. It can just create drama, I’d move on.
Depends on the person doesn’t it. I’m still friends with my ex. He’s coming to Christmas dinner!
I would still be friends with my ex husband if he was allowed…
All beenI think that would all depend upon you and him and where you are in your life in my opinion people cut ties with each other because of feelings whether there mad or hurt if the both of you can look past whatever split y’all up stay friends just make sure nobody is leading on
I think it depends on how the relationship was, but from my experience I think it’s better to cut ties with them
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