Am I treating my ex unfairly?

Anonymous

I know this might not be important but….

My relationship ended with my first ex last year in late June. He cheated on me and gave me an infection. The relationship ended there and I never gave him another chance. I met another guy in last October and dated him until this year December. Throughout my whole relationship with this other guy, my ex has chased me. He’s made several numbers and emails to contact me and would not leave me alone. The reason my ex was in the picture was because my boyfriend (now ex) thought I was still seeing my ex.

My relationship just ended with this other man because he cheated on me too. My ex found out about this and is salty that I’m not giving this guy the treatment I gave him. Yes both guys were both disrespectful but my he was more disrespectful.
My first ex was different. He never wanted to go out with me anywhere. He would go days to weeks (went two weeks once) without communication and had some weak excuse for it. During the holidays, never texted me or called. Disliked me sitting or touching anything in his car.

With this recent ex, he wasn’t the best but he was nice to me the first moments of dating. I stayed over at his place some times, he had no issues with me being in his car. Communication was good. We went places. He was verbally abusive and cheated. I wasn’t mean to him or do anything bad. My ex found out about this and it has made him so upset that I’m not treating this man how I treated him with the break up. He thinks like I’m going to take this guy back and I just let him get away with cheating.

Am I treating my ex unfairly?
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