Howcome I prayed for my relationship with my ex to flourish and thrive and yet?

[Anonymous]

[FunkyMonkee]

Why would you waste your time praying? There's nothing to pray to. That's why 3000 people died on Sept. 11th. If there was something to pray to and it was doing its job, they'd all still be alive today. There'd be no such thing as disease, hatred of others, war, murder, rape or crime of any kind!
As for me...

https://www.youtube.com/embed/TpyjlVO6gRI

[Notherndude84]

Because God doesn’t exist, relationships take work, not some invisible sky man to fix.

[Asker]

Sky man lol.

[Notherndude84]

Isn’t that what God is?

An invisible shy man with no Penis

[Summeroflove]

It’s not meant to be. Some of God’s greatest gifts. Are unanswered prayers.

[Asker]

Wow so he wants people to suffer or perpetually wonder? Sad.

[Summeroflove]

It’s more that sometimes what people desire isn’t what’s best for them.

[Asker]

Hmm I don't know if I agree with that 🤔. A loving, supportive God would've made things easier instead of harder. LIke they say, life's hard enough. And it wasn't like I was desiring someone who was homeless, or had drug, anger, alcohol, women issues like I did in the past. I changed my requirements and leveled them up and still, I met another Mr. Wrong..

[Asker]

But anyway, interesting, thanks.

[Summeroflove]

A person who loves God wouldn’t live like a degenerate and you’re welcome

[bobalife]

Praying is good for you and your connection to god. However, some people are meant to be a lesson/seasonal and not for long-term relationships unfortunately :/ I'm sorry... I am sure god has better plans for you and your future even if it does not feel like it now.

[Asker]

Thanks. I am of advanced age already and I really wanted a WORKING long-term relationship that would've lead to marriage. Lord how frustrating and very sad/disappointing.

[Asker]

I don't think I wanna even try for another relationship honestly. It's too exshausting to try only to have it blow up in my face. I want love but all that work and only for it to NOT work? ! Seems too much work lol, if you know what I mean.. like it's not a worth-it endeavor. I feel like I'd have better luck starting a BUSINESS (another one that is).. it has better success rate lol. Especially now that I am not getting younger and men just want to shallowly/selfishly want younger.. 😞 as if we don't count anymore for sex and companionship when we hit our 40's or older! ... And all the women are too happy to be with Dirty Old Men that are twice to three times their age! Sick it really is!

[bobalife]

: ( I’m sorry, I definitely understand how you feel with wanting someone serious and worthy for lifetime partners in our age group and life stages. I doubt all women are going for that lol, or at least not where I am. It is disappointing, frustrating, and sad… it may also feel like it’s not worth to try again with another one if this one ain’t gonna work… but it doesn’t mean it’s an equivalent what may be out there for you. Just because you want a lifetime partner, don’t settle for someone who’s not making it work with you or vice versa. I don’t like the whole “only focus on you” because it’s validated you want love and you’re all set with yourself, but I wanna also say be patient and be half open to what will be presented for you. Half open until someone deserving of your whole heart will come your way. I don’t think it matters how old you are, age is a beautiful thing and I’m sure someone worthy will be the right person for you. I hope this will help you feel better~

[bobalife]

And congrats on your business! I’m sure it’s not easy, but you did it, that’s amazing accomplishment there! :)

[KittygosMeoWW]

Girl, I prayed many nights while I was pregnant. If a man is not meant for you he will only bring you hurt. Leave him alone before he turns into a lesson.

[Asker]

Then I wish God didn't present him to me... or any of those Mr. Wrongs I came into contact with along my journey in this life. I really just finally want to be Ms. Right for somebody who will APPRECIATE me and love me and support me, cherish me like I deserve! And also seeing other women with that kind of relationship and half of them don't even DESERVE it! Anyway... thanks.

[KittygosMeoWW]

You’re no one to say who does or doesn’t deserve it, and I believe everyone comes into your life for a reason. Something’s are meant to be uncomfortable and hard so you can ride above them and grow closer to god. Stay positive and work on yourself until you’re mad right for yourself. Trust me if you knew how hard my lesson is you’d understand.

[Asker]

@kittygosmeoww well fine, but still, some women who are so impatient they have children with Mr. Wrong while they are still young and they STILL end up with good, supportive men who not only date them but become step dad to their progeny! While me, I didn't even go that route and I made sure NOT to have a baby while I couldn't afford it and I wanted to have it with the right man for example! I took my time and this is what I get? ? ! Also, you also don't know the things I've been through with regards to men and dating either so.. Lastly, were you talking about your baby's father in your answer? Just wondering.

[KittygosMeoWW]

Yes, was finally able to get a restraining order today. Now I don’t have to worry about any physical abuse anymore.

Your time will come with the right man, don’t force things with the wrong guy.

[LiamJHayden]

Assuming there is a God, wouldn't the answer to prayers sometimes be "No."

[Asker]

Okay sure, but why no?

And why doesn't he present me with Mr. Yeses already. I'm not 20 lol. I'm twice that.

[laly520]

its just not meant to be

[Asker]

Then I wish god would've told me that sooner instead of allowing me to waste any more of my time with Mr. Wrongs! And why did God present me with someone I thought was very compatible with me! Strange.

[Roudyrebel8]

Maybe G-d had a different plan

[Asker]

And maybe he doesn't exist? Since when did he really care for me I feel. I've prayed for things numerous times... ah well, I am not going to give up 😞..

[slatyb]

Prayer doesn't work.

[Danny_dan92]

Grow up child

[Asker]

Excuse me but that's mean to say. How am I not grown up just because I asked this? Weirdo lol.

[Danny_dan92]

Move on from your ex. It ended for a reason

[Danny_dan92]

That’s why

[Asker]

Yeah a not good one in my opinion.

And just because someone believes in God does NOT make them a child. Maybe YOU'RE the one that needs to grow up about that.

[Danny_dan92]

Uhh… I’m talking about still being hung up on your ex

[Asker]

Well I'm sorry for having feelings! I am only human and I really just wanted to finally meet Mr. Right, not getting any younger there, but you're right though if I want to be happy again, but really, I PRAYED for it to work, and yet it still didn't (in fact, I pray for a lot of things that don't really come to fruition), and this was just one of the sad and frustating parts of my life that I don't appreciate!

[Danny_dan92]

Well, shit happens.