My ex friends with benefits won't leave me alone and it's starting to get aggravating. We weren't dating and when we were friends with benefits he was careless with me. I was ignored by him on multiple occasions. Well two years ago he started seeing another girl. I don't know if it was a sexual relationship or what but he closed me off to be with her. He ended up coming back and said that the girl needed time for herself because she's going through a lot of issues. After that I continued to not see him anymore. The first year he's tried contacting me every few months. Then the year after has been contacting me non stop and always has something “important” to tell me. He is blocked but he creates other numbers. It's been two years and I've seen other guys and forget about him.
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Ex friends with benefits won't leave me alone?
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He won't forget your easy sex and men adore that and crave it.
The girl did not want the same deal you gave that loser so they broke up.
Just keep blocking him and post on social media where he can see how much you hate being contacted.
How terrible his behavior is and that is not how you should treat another!
He won't stop till he has a real reason to cause men are pigs in private!
Daaaaaamn that's harsh. Can't believe he keeps bugging you after treating you like that. What a loser.
honestly I'd just block and ignore at this point. You're probably not gonna get through to him why it's not cool, and you don't owe him any explanations. Just live your best life and let him keep wasting his time making new numbers!
Only thing I'd say is be careful, some dudes can get creepy if you reject them too hard. But you've been nice enough already telling him it's over.
Maybe warn some mutual friends what's up in case he tries talking shit about you through them. And don't meet up with him alone anywhere, you never know with desperate dudes.
Other than that, just focus on yourself and the guys who actually appreciate you now. This clown ain't worth another thought! His loss that he messed things up.
Sounds like he’s just looking for ass and his girlfriend doesn’t want to give it to him. So default to plan a.