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Almost 40 so none. But were I still a child dad hands down. Children raised by single fathers have the same outcome life wise as children raised by both parents. Where as children raised by single mothers often wind up in jail, abusive relationships as either the abuser or the abused, wind up assaulting or sexually assaulting others. Wind up on drugs or alcohol. Wind up poorer if not outright homeless and several other things. End of the day provided the father wants to be in the child's life it is nearly always better the child be raised by either both parents or just the dad. Those are the facts
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My parents got divorced when I was 28 years old and not living at home. I would not want to live with either of them. Instead, I left town for three years to attend law school. It was a good time to leave town!
My dad. I love them equally but my dad is a lot more comfortable with me over my brother, since we have kinda the same personality. Both very affectionate, both sensitive, both very talkative. He considers life pointless without my mother so he'd reaaally need some emotional support if they ever divorced. And he's not getting that from my emotionally distant, quiet brother.
My dad isn’t around but if he ever was, I’d go live with him. Not to say my mom and I aren’t close, but we only became cross once my dad passed on. I’ve always been daddy’s little shit head and a lot of my firsts were because of my dad saying “go do it because I encourage you and I’ll sort the rest with your mom”
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Probably my dad to be honest. My mom and I didn’t get along well when I was growing up. Dad was at work most of the time so I’d get the house to myself. My mom works from home and travels a lot now so I wouldn’t be able to get away from her long enough to relax. I’m glad I live by myself.
My parents got divorce right before 7th grade I lived with my dad and while he is a great dad I would have rather lived with my mom since around that age we girls start developing changes in our body it would have been less awkward with a female family member helping and guiding me through the changes. But I understood with my mom being on drugs and being in an abuse relationship at the time that it wouldn't have worked out.
That is never going to happen in my case since my parents were happily married but my father died young unfortunately.
I lived with my mother, my father didn't care
parents got divorced when i was young. obviously had to live with my mom since it was just easier for my dad to leave everything (house, plus my school zone, etc)
My parents did break up. I lived with my mom because my dad was the one who left and I couldn't leave my mom by herself lol.
Hard to say, thank god that they remained together till my father passed away...
I believe that in a real marriage, kids do not have to choose between the father and the mother, it's because their parents will be married foreverMy parents got divorced when I was very young and I would still prefer to live with my mom because I just want to be around my mom more.
That's not to say I wouldn't live with my dad as I wouldn't have a problem with him, but my mom birth me into this world so I pick her.Neither, but if I was still a kid definitely my mom. Even though I liked my dad better as a kid that was just because my mom is basically a wall flower around him. I would like to have gotten to know her better.
My parents were divorced since I was 12. I lived primarily with my mother.
Mine divorced when I was 5 years and I lived with my Mom.
Too old to be thinking about that.. But I had custody of my daughters.
On my own tbh. Not my brother, neither parent. Maybe my sister.
Done it during lockdown my mum had to fly back to america for something and my dad was uk. It was weird not seeing them together
My parents got divorced when I was in high school. I lived with my mother.
I guess, mom because, most of my life, dad's treated me like shit.
My parents have long since passed. But probably I would have went with my mother. We were always closer.
If my parents had gotten divorced which they did not do but certainly should have. I would have lived with my father 100% of the time.
My mom can’t drive, so I don’t see much of a choice. 😕
My parents never divorced, so it would tough. I guess it would depend on the circumstances
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