Can a trauma bond still exist after leaving your narcissistic ex for a year almost two years? and is it similar to a heroin addiction?

[amanda_jaileen]

For those that have experienced narcissistic abuse. I was making a research that trauma bonds still exists can be felt even after being broken up with the narcissist but if that is true then the way I been feeling lately is because I’m still addicted to my narcissist. My stomach feels anxious I feel my heart racing at a fast pace, I feel weird at night, I feel like I need to self harm or do something so I won’t feel that way anymore for a while.

[molonski2]

Well , its nothing like being addicted to smack , thats a ludicrous example.

But , within your subconscious , you wish to be controlled and you like a man with that power , the word narcissist , is massively over used , there is absolutely NO WAY everyone being labelled narcissist , actually is one.

You have a few choices , really make a decision that you want to move on and see a phycologist to help you though this , or take him back and accept that its not all about you , or find another very strong willed individual male to lead you out of this situation.

Self harm is NEVER an option.

[Anonymous]

I have never experienced such a thing, but I know a woman that has. People spend so much time dealing with the mental and physical consequences that they forget about the spiritual ones. From what you described above, you will need deliverance. But many will tell you such a thing doesn't exist, but I've seen it with my own eyes. Your problems at night are a result of the need to be delivered spiritually from the bond.

[amanda_jaileen]

Im not Christian sorry i don’t do religion because religions will be the ones to invalidate how I truly feel from time to time. If I would want to hear this I would run to Jesus.

[Opinion Owner]

And that is why so many miss complete healing. I only discovered any of this because one day I was discussing scripture with a lady I know. After I spoke one about releasing a bond she fell to the floor and all of this stuff came out of her mouth and nose along with sounds that were not her own voice. I was only vaguely aware of what was happening and instinctively continued quoting more scripture and something left her.

Whether you believe in it or not, will not change that it is there and of a spiritual nature, and only responds to scripture / Jesus. After this happened some health issues started to clear up too.

[DishLady]

Please go get professional counseling if you’re actually comparing dating a guy to a heroin addiction….

[amanda_jaileen]

I think I made myself clear when I said for those who have experienced narcissistic abuse only 😂😂🤣😂🤦‍♀️

[DishLady]

Yeah. Crystal… and an intelligent human would get that some problems can’t be addressed on random chat forums.

[Billlewis]

I imagine it's probably fairly common. I just started following you and I'd like to invite you to follow me, as well if that's alright. I'd love to discuss this with you. Thank you very much.

[amanda_jaileen]

I already followed you

[jahaims]

You will feel that way until you fix your trauma

[andy530]

Yep it can still be intact

[In_Trance]

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