What was the point of my ex asking why I blocked him?

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So about a month ago I block my ex after he ghosted me after he confessed to have feelings for me and even asked me to dinner. He ended up blocking me right back. He got in contact with me and thaws were the messages

Him- why did you block me?

Me- because that was wrong

Him- Don’t act like you didn’t want to.. and wym feeling myself? You buggin lol that was close to the time when I was going out of town and they scheduled me 6 days and I ended up working 7 in a row that Thursday happened to be my 7th day they asked can I come in I was pissed af I wasn’t on my phone the entire day. I went to text you I believe Saturday to apologize and explain the situation but you had blocked me so chill.

Me -your on a high horse and just wanted your ego boosted

Him- I’m not on no high horse I’m just saying. That’s what YOU think I’m thinking but it’s not the case lol but it wasn’t on purpose or anything I just had a long week that week and I could’ve reached out sooner thats on me but when I did go to reach out I was blocked

Me- well then why did you block me back after I blocked you

Him- Cause you had me fu**d up so I blocked back. And as far as stalking your page is wild I viewed a single story nor am I playing little games but you got it I was just curious to why you blocked me I won’t bother you anymore

Me- I feel like you played with me

Him- How did I play with your feelings? And how did I get an ego boost when I said I still had feelings for you at the time? Don’t make sense to me

Him- An ego boost to what exactly? I didn’t have an ego from none of that to begin with I don't know but I’m sorry if you felt I played with your feelings wasn’t my intentions and once again I won’t bother you anymore. Take care.

Me- so basically what I'm getting from this is all you wanted was to have sex with me, maybe hangout sometimes but not commit?

Him- yup that's what you’re getting and that's what I said, I only wanted to be friends at most.

Summeroflove · Answer

Maybe to get closure but at the end of the day if someone blocks me without closure they aren’t worth being in my life anyways.

But also ghosting someone is cowardly as well if someone does that I don’t bother talking to them so be it there’s people who genuinely want to talk to me.

I’m not saying things like that don’t hurt if you cared for the person because it does it’s not being heartless but it’s just figuring oh well, at least they’re not gonna make me miserable.

Oliverlogan263 · Answer

Yo this whole situation sounds messy and confusing. A few things I'm thinking:

- Him asking why you blocked him was probably just out of curiosity more than anything else. Guys can be nosy too.

- Blocking each other back and forth is immature though, y'all just needed to leave each other alone at that point.

- Def sounds like his intentions weren't totally clear. Saying he has feelings but also just wanted to be casual doesn't add up.

- The excuses for ghosting seem kinda weak too. A real commitment wouldn't flake like that over a busy work week.

At the end of the day, he showed you where his priorities were at. Better to find someone reliable who treats you with respect. This guy just wants the benefits without the effort of a real relationship.

Don't stress too much trying to decode his motives - actions speak louder than words. Just focus on you for now. His loss if he can't get his stuff together!

What was the point of my ex asking why I blocked him?

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