Girlfriend broke up with me after my cancer diagnosis saying she does not want to deal with my cancer. What kind of psychopath is she?

[David1108]

I was diagnosed with Thyroid cancer. The girlfriend i. e., now ex categorically told me she did not want to deal with my cancer and wants to break up.

After the break up she has been emailing me videos about 'True Love' and ' How a man loves a woman" and so on.

When you leave someone when they are really vulnerable at least have the decency to stay away and keep your mouth shut.

She does not even realise that

a) She has no business talking about true love after she left me because of my cancer

b) Even if she did this is not the right time

What kind of a psychopath is she?

Updates

6 mo

She contacted my friend and asked him if he wants to date her. Like 4 days after breaking up with me.. He is freaked out.. 😱

[Anonymous]

I don’t know how serious your diagnosis is, but if it is super super serious, looks like a clear sign to me that others deserve your time WAY more and not even a millisecond of your brain power should be about her, she’s garbage.

[David1108]

It localised thyroid cancer.. So survival rate is 98% or something.. Just have to go through the pain of iodine therapy and surgery...

[Opinion Owner]

sounds like a win win then if you make it, you beat cancer and got to see your exs true colors. Onto bigger and better things

[David1108]

Yeah and she knows I will survive..
She doesn't want to deal with the shitstorm of surgery and therapy
But what wants to have the option of coming back LOL

Women these days!!!

[FunkyMonkee]

Fuck her over and cure it yourself. There's nearly 400 known natural cures! Your Dr. won't tell you about any of them! They're in the business of selling chemo & radiation. They get filthy rich on that shit!

[Agape93]

That's not psychopathy, that's just being a shit partner

[LiamJHayden]

Different people react to this differently. Also, we do not know how long you dated.

[David1108]

We have been official for a year now

[Anonymous]

Eh. It's fair game. This is the difference between someone you're dating and someone you're married to.

[katiesmuff]

It is sad to see this kind of behavior

[Anonymous]

Until you have been through this with someone, you are in no position to judge.

[nevooo]

yeah tell the guy with cancer who’s girlfriend dumped him for it he can’t judge cause his girlfriends a scum bag. You’re fucking wacked out.

[David1108]

I understand her not want to deal with my cancer.. I probably would not have done the same if the shoe were on the other foot. Ut I understand.

I don't understand her sending me videos about 'True Love' after breaking up with me.

That to me is a complete lack of self awareness...

[ForsakenQuill]

She sounds like a real hypocrite