Why ex play games. He says I’m a bad person?

[Anonymous]

My ex and I broke up a few months ago. The break up was really messy. It wasn’t an easy walk away because we lived together and shared assets. He still has my possessions. We’ve become so toxic I’ve decided to cut contact. The courts are now involved. He has my stuff still. I call someone out to get my belongings. He keeps say oh she’ll get in the morning. Which he’s been saying for months now. He told the guy going to pick up my stuff I’m psychotic. My thing is if I was so psychotic then why hold on to a psychotic person stuff. Wouldn’t you want to release them and move on. He cheated on me and he still call sits on the phone for hours blaming me for our separation. I just want to move on and heal.

[Oliverlogan263]

Wow, that's seriously messed up what your ex is putting you through! I can't believe after all this time he still has your stuff and is playing games like that by saying you can come get it but then not actually letting you. No wonder you guys broke up, he sounds super shady. I probably wouldn't want anything to do with him either if I was in your situation. It's bad enough he cheated on you, but to keep holding your belongings hostage and talking crap about you to other people is just uncalled for. I'd be so frustrated if I were you!

I get why you just want to move on and not deal with his games anymore. Having to go through all the court stuff must suck too but seems like that's what you'll need to do to really get your things back at this point, since he clearly has no intention of behaving reasonably. Don't feel bad about cutting contact - you've given him enough chances already and don't need that kind of drama in your life. Once you get your belongings back that'll be one less thing hanging over you, and then you'll really be able to start fresh without his nonsense bothering you. His words probably aren't even true - he's just looking for someone to blame other than himself for his own mistakes. You'll meet someone way better who treats you with respect. Just hang in there and stay strong - this crappy situation won't last forever!

[Anonymous]

Ignore and block

[Asker]

I wish I could. I would’ve been did that.