Why ex play games. He says I’m a bad person?

My ex and I broke up a few months ago. The break up was really messy. It wasn’t an easy walk away because we lived together and shared assets. He still has my possessions. We’ve become so toxic I’ve decided to cut contact. The courts are now involved. He has my stuff still. I call someone out to get my belongings. He keeps say oh she’ll get in the morning. Which he’s been saying for months now. He told the guy going to pick up my stuff I’m psychotic. My thing is if I was so psychotic then why hold on to a psychotic person stuff. Wouldn’t you want to release them and move on. He cheated on me and he still call sits on the phone for hours blaming me for our separation. I just want to move on and heal.

Why ex play games. He says I’m a bad person?
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