Me and my boyfriend on a break and I’m heartbroken but he cheated?

[Anonymous]

Me and my boyfriend have been together 2 years and we have a son. I found out he cheated on me and after this all hell broke loose because his mom was on my side since we have just had a baby and actually cut him off our her life for over a month and kicked him out of her house , he fell out with everyone as he was lying to everyone saying he’s going to see his friend when in reality he was seeing another woman.

I also had a abortion and he didn’t seem to care or help me through it. We’re on a break now and in a way I’m trying to move on but he keeps sending me quotes about how he’s in love with me and wants me and sees life with me on the future but he lost everyone after cheating on me last time and wants to make sure it dosent happen again.

im just heartbroken because I don’t know if to move on since he cheated, everyday I wake up just sad and I find it hard to be a mom. We still obviously go out together as we have a son and talk most days and he said he ended things with that girl which I agree is true as everything she’s posting is depressing but again it’s like what happens when THEYRES the next girl. I’m just so confused and I don’t know why I want him back when he put me through hell.

[Makeushiver]

I'm sorry you feel that way. If you stated in question whose idea the break was, it might be informative. Right now you are comparing his words to his actions. Words come cheaply, actions show you what he is and, in all likelihood, who he'll continue to be. It might be better, more painful at first but better in the long run, to use this opportunity to get out. At least start dating other guys. You may not want to but in almost every case where words and actions don't match up, the actions will get worse. I'm sure that it seems like the end of the world now but you do deserve better. If you ever want to talk more rsvp or DM me whichever you prefer

[jahaims]

What are you confused about? You let a weak/stupid person nut in you. Now you have consequences.

[red-lipstick-girl]

Don't stop communicating with him because you have a child but don't trust him because he cheated on you, it's not acceptable you should stop dating him

[Danny_dan92]

On a break but he cheated…. That makes sense

[seeyounexttuesday]

You are a fucking mess.

[Asker]

Cheers pal