we were together for 2 years, he was my first ever boyfriend maybe that’s why I’m so in love still after he abused me. He did it several times. He turned into a very dark disgusting individual. Luckily I got away. Isaw him for the first in months like maybe a month ago or more for his clothes back in my apartment bc he’s banned from stepping on my property. We cried, hugged, gave eachother a little kiss and I told him I forgave him and wish well. It was nothing bad. Then he went to send me a dsck pic hours after our encounter. He was saying it made him sad putting the clothes away. Was talking a lot. Then it went to absolutely nothing. I texted him that a friend of mine he met died and he didn’t seem to care at all. It’s like he goes from hot to cold. Says he still will always love me. I’m blocked on everything but not on iMessage. He always responds but it’s dry and boring. I just realized his cousin recently unfollowed me. He isn’t posting anything about another girl but he still has my mom and sister on Facebook? So I’m just not understanding what his issue is. He is an extremely troubled human being, he’s abusive. He was very mad after our breakup accusing me of being with guys when I wasn’t, was very controlling even after, would say he’s driving by my house. Now since we’ve agreed to be good friends it’s like crickets he never texts me anymore, if I text him about issues it seems like I’m just embarrassing myself cause it’s obvious he doesn’t care. But he wasn’t acting like this till recently. When we became friends he said I would like to know if you’ve moved on as much as it would hurt and I said same. I asked him if he can unblock me cause it’s ridiculous if we made amends. He said he can’t stand seeing me? So how should I go about this? I was the victim in the situation, he got away free no justice on my end, yet i still forgave. Now it just feels like he’s ghosting me completely then I saw his cousin deleted me so I don't know what is happening.
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If he ghosts you’re going to feel foolish because you shouldn’t have been talking to him in the first place. You already know he’s a weird, abusive person, you know he is not good to have in your life even as a friend, so I don’t understand this confusion.
Not weird.
He is expected to stop when he finds a new relationship especially after a difficult break up.
Society frowns on guys who have 2 at same time "2 timers".
Why are you still talking to your ex?
Cause he was reaching out to me first and we agreed to be there for each other as friends.
But now he’s acting so dry and boring all of a sudden
Ok, so your solution is to move on