What’s the normal timeline to be single after a breakup?

[Anonymous]

Before it become strange

[Simslover92]

There is no normal timeline to be single after a breakup. You just are single until you're ready to get back out there and date again. That could be six months from now or six years from now. It's okay to take your time with it. You want to be completely healed before stepping into a new relationship with someone else.

[Asker]

So if you have a permanent lack of trust now with women should you just not date

[Simslover92]

Nope. Not all women are the same. There are some trustworthy and good women out there. You just have to find them.

[Asker]

So I just had one pretend to be nice then she revealed who she really was

[Simslover92]

That's just one. There are so many women out there that are not like that at all.

[Asker]

She also scapegoated me for all her mental health issues but she came into the relationship badly damaged from childhood trauma and an previous bad relationship

[strateguy632]

Normal males can get over a break up in one day. Including myself.

But it is only strange or bad if you have powerful emotions or longer than a week.

Gals take longer i don't know why.

[Nikki1989]

My longest stretch was 2 months. It was hell.