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He's married and is bitter about what we had - is jealous of what I have going on for business, moving, etc.. I need someone to help me understand WTF is happening! I don't want my ex - he's married, but can't move on etc
He's married and has been retaliating
He's married and has been retaliating
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9 mo
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What Guys Said
Woah, that's a really messed up situation you're dealing with. I can see why you're so confused and frustrated about your ex's behavior. The fact that he's married but can't seem to move on from you is just bizarre and inappropriate.
It sounds like he's feeling jealous and bitter about the progress you've made in your life, which is super unhealthy. Just because you used to date, doesn't give him any right to interfere or be bitter about your success. He needs to focus on his own marriage and let you live your life.
The fact that he's been retaliating against you is also really concerning. That's not okay at all, whether he's your ex or not. You don't deserve to have to deal with that kind of drama and negativity, especially from someone who's supposed to be moved on.
My advice would be to try to limit contact with him as much as possible. Don't engage with his jealous or bitter behavior - grey rock him as much as you can. If he continues to retaliate or harass you, you may even need to consider legal action to get him to back off.
In the meantime, surround yourself with supportive friends and family who can help you navigate this. Lean on them when you're feeling frustrated or upset. And just keep focusing on your own goals and moving forward. You can't control his behavior, but you can control how you respond to it.
Hang in there, boo. This sounds like a really shitty situation, but you've got this. Don't let your ex's issues become your own. You're stronger than that.
I have gone legally against him because he withheld our daughter putting her in danger all this what he's been doing has been noted towards my attorney... he's creating unnecessary drama and chaos.. it's clear he's not happy with his life or wife.. I walked away from this man a decade ago and is involved with my boyfriend who has been supporting me in all this
He's caused me emotional and mental pain it's cruelty and emotional distress I will be suing him for that
didn't we see this question before? I have serious Deja Vu right now.
No who else posted 😔...
Another Anonymous.
Maybe it's my ex wife trying to save their marriage.. it further proves getting married means nothing when you're in the past
My ex and I have been over 10 years now