How to get over a guy I dated at 18 when he was 24? he went to orgys and cheated on me now I feel dirty for having been with him?

[Anonymous]

[Summeroflove]

Well that’s normal to feel dirty especially when someone acted like one person but was out doing another. If you’re someone who doesn’t engage in that lifestyle yeah… It feels dirty and disgusting.

It takes time time and prayer to get past that. Being cheated on is extremely degrading and is one of the worst things you can do to somebody. Finding out about someone doing this isn’t fun. Especially if he seemed like a decent loving man.

[slatyb]

What do you mean "feel dirty?" We all had a first time, and almost no one spends their life with their first partner. Do you feel that somehow you are damaged? You are not. There's nothing unusual about your story. If you came from some religion with a purity culture, consider professional counseling to get over that shit.

[Nikki1989]

You have a lot to learn about men. I became aware of that crap when I was 14, and to this day I still always hear about men and their cheating habits. There are good men out there, but one of the most immense challenges of relationships is finding one.

[Stevepro68]

Your previous relationships as long as your are std free should be forgot

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

That sounds like a conversation for a therapist

[beenherebefore]

Are you still in love with him?

[In_Trance]

Therapy