Is my ex girlfriend making up bullsh*t stories?

[Anonymous]

OK, not long ago my girlfriend and me broke up, she's been making this quite dramatic. anyways, she's started saying she had health issues, and that it'd take forever to "heal", however then she changed her story and said she was too "insecure". Then after that she said she needed to focus on her life,and what she wants to do with it,and find herself.

Then she said it was my fault that she felt guilty talking to her guy friends because I told her I didn't feel comfortable with her being around them/talking to them (flirting wise) after stating she may be unfaithful in the future,as well as the fact she mentioned I was "possessive" and "over sensitive", despite the fact I never told her what to do, and she couldn't be enforced to do so as I'm out of state.

I've also noticed she has lied quite a bit, and created false tensions between me and other people. Most of this sounds like garbage to attempt to make me feel guilty, for her lack of motivation to stick with anything. She also happens to be a Pisces-which she fits that quite nicely, if one evaluates everything she says.

Also she stated I was "mean", because I pointed out another view point that opposed that of her friends. (I didn't insult them or anything of the form, however they were quick to do so to me)

Is this girl really just bullsh*tting me and making excuses up?

[geronimojoesaephus]

ok, the astrology thing has nothing to do with it. I'm a pisces and I have only told a few people the entire story of how my ex manipulated me and took my for granted. My ex, on the other hand, is a cancer and has told mutual friends that I'm a stalker and that I hate them. None of which are true because I've already moved on to dating a new girl.

It's got nothing to do with gender or astrological sign. Some people will just slander their exes without any real justification.

[King-Matt]

I've dated a few special cases in my time. If you can't trust her (which it seems you don't) then follow that and drop her like a brick. The more you doubt her the more insecure she will feel and the more she will put you down. Just move on an tell her she's free to do what she likes now so there's no need to hold any of it against you. Other than that I'd avoid all contact. She sounds pretty immature.

[TradeMark]

I completely agree!

[Ree-Ree]

Sounds to me like she's trying to make you feel so bad about ending her that you would take her back... (not saying your going to)

Personally I would advise you to run. Ignore her, she sounds like she will do anything to try and get you back.

As for the lying, once a liar, always a liar. Remember that.

Distance yourself from this girl... Make her realize that acting the way she is will get her nowhere.

Good luck.

[BirdofParadise]

Sounds to me like she doesn't know how to deal with the break up. She still has feelings for you and is trying to stir things up to get a reaction from you. If you really want to piss her off, just ignore it all... once she sees that she's not going to be able to get a rise out of you she will let it go. Don't worry about what she says to your friends, any real friend will see right through it.

[desidoll]

Sounds like she wanted you to feel guilty about the break up.By making those stories it looks like she is having a miserable life.

[-Darling]

Sounds like she doesn't know what she wants. Or she just doesn't want to hurt you with the thruth so she's trying to make up an excuse that _she_ thinks would be easier for you to handle

[-Darling]

I suggest next time you talk about this, DO NOT in any means ask for an explenation for why she's leaving, just be like "alright if that's what you want then that's how its going to be, it was nice knowing you" nothing more nothing less, that should be the end od that convo! Say bye with a smile. And you will avoid the situation youve described above

[Morpheus2]

^^Best answer I think

[Asker]

Well bare in mind all these excuses lasted 2 weeks straight. They made it worse, and was quite mentally abusive if you ask me.

[-Darling]

Yeh well what's making you hold on to her then? Let it go

[Asker]

suicide crap she mentioned "I feel like killing myself ever 10 minutes". Seeing how my friend actually did.. I don't find it to much of a "forget".

[mshaker]

Okay I didn't read the whole thing, because I already know where this is going.

Dump her before she dumps you. End of story. Then she will cry over. She's making excuses to break up. So do it first.

[Anonymous]

She probably inside doesn't want to admit her wrongs, so she's pushing the blame to you.