My ex caught me driving past his house, how bad could it turn out?

[Anonymous]

We broke up more than a year ago but we sort of still secretly into each other but nobody wants to make a move. He tease me a lot and friends always caught him looking at me. I drove past his street yesterday as he was walking along it. I was so shock but he was smiling/chuckling when he saw me. I guess he find me stalking him amusing. I am so embarrassed! I don't normally stalk ex but I guess I just miss him. Now my question is will it affect how he feel towards me?

[Anonymous]

haha, had to laugh when I read that he saw you do that. :P If he was teasing you because he likes you, and as you say he's secretly into you, then yes, you stalking him will effect how he feels towards you. Maybe you should just make the move? What's stopping you both from doing that? I mean considering you both like each other...

[Asker]

How would that affect me? I mean in a positive or negative way?

[Opinion Owner]

Positive

[Asker]

I'm just too embarrassed with the whole stalking situation and now I don't know how to react around him if I see him at work which is in another 2weeks. I'm over thinking that he might not like me after this stalking incident. Can you please explain how this can affect us positively?

[Opinion Owner]

That he knows you like him a little too much. It's good considering he likes you. Not so good if neither of you are going to do anything.

[Asker]

I did ask him out 2months after we broke up but he said no. And now it's been 1.5year and I'm still hurt from the rejection. I'm confuse with all the mixed signals too. When we are working together, he seems to be so into me and yet he didn't wish me on my b'day. I went away for 2weeks in Feb and when I return he was all nice and close to me as if he miss me. But he never text me. So I don't know if he want me back. All my friends think we are still crazy about each other.

[Opinion Owner]

The ball is in his court then. I suggest that you avoid letting him get close in any way, why let him have the advantage of not being in a relationship yet acting kinda close whenever he wants. If he wants you he'll need to do more than send mixed signals to you. :x

[XNicholex3]

Well he is obviously not creeped out by it. It kind of sounds like he is flattered that you did that. But if not, either way he had a laugh.