Is it bad if you drive by your ex house?

[mattclark242]

is it bad if you drive by your ex house? and think if they are ok or wonder if you should say something to then or try help them or leave them money in there mail box. I done then with the past to relationship (drive by there house) I think it bad behavior also one girl said she did not trust me when I came to her house. is this obsessive behavior I have? or a sick ness? I don't know. one girl call it predatory behavior. I know it bad. I just have careing feeling and I try stop thing about that person. I try get over it and I mean them no harm. I keep thinking they need help

[Guy13]

To drive by an ex girlfriend home is dangerously obsessive. It does not matter what your intent is as we are judged upon our actions firstly and intentions secondly. Wanting to leave money for her or anything for that matter makes one look more unstable and dangerous. Stay far away from her home...

My cameras, which can not be ween go 300 feet plus off the exterior of the home and around the whole home. I would have your car documented if something weird happened in my house. We all know you did it...

[mattclark242]

yes I stop now I got a new girlfriend and I broke up with her cause she just useing me like all the other.

[Curmudgeon]

Well, if she dumped you, why do you feel the need to help her financially? Her loss.

[kylee2437]

I think it’s a bit obsessive. You don’t owe people anything after they exit out of your life

[hhhffg7889]

How much out of your normal route is her house?
If any, then yeah that's an issue.

[mattclark242]

yes It like 1hr 60mi she live in Cle any way I stop doing it now I got a new girlfriend then she was not good and then I broke up with her.

[In_Trance]

Leave them money? WTF

[mattclark242]

I mean it as a way help them with there bills and there kids.

[In_Trance]

You leave her money while she's getting plowed by another guy...

[mattclark242]

no I was think about cause she said she need it but it a bad ideal she plowed any guy that give her money that what I do not like about her she mess up.