Girls do you find it hot or sexy when a guy lifts something heavy for you?

[Robotic]

Like for instance when you need to move something that is heavy and a guy comes and moves it for you.

Hot or no?

[toulouse]

no I find it much more attractive when I do it myself. if for some reason, I had to have someone else lift something, id wonder what my problem was. if it was absolutely necessary, id accept we lift it together. there's no reason for someone else to do something I'm perfectly capable of doing. that would just be silly.

on the other hand. if I like a guy seeing him do anything is attractive because I like to watch him using his hands. but it could be washing dishes or doing laundry. I wouldn't be turned on by him lifting things, because there's too much stigma attached to the idea I'm not supposed to 'be able to'. or I'm supposed to let him think I can't so he can feel good. if I have to act helpless for him to feel good, I'm not feeling that great about him, period.

so its an automatic turn off. especially because I genuinely enjoy lifting things. or other physical acts that stress the body, in a productive way.dishes and laundry not so much.. unless the laundry is really heavy ;p

[ThenThereWas1]

YES. It's like p*rn to me. I constantly try to find excuses to make this one handsome fella at work do "handy man" things. Sometimes that includes transporting heavy things. But hey, the man can make me blush by changing a light bulb. And I don't blush.

[adamfk1]

girls only care about looks :'( I'm going to die alone

[Winteredrose5162]

Honestly, guys care just as much about looks. With that attitude you might die alone. If the guy that this is talking about had a horrible personality I'm sure she wouldn't be so much into him

[mid20sgirl86]

Everyone is into looks, but I think it's actually guys who are more into them than girls to be honest. But really, you will die alone since you're not willing to do anything about it except cry and moan about girls are only into looks. Maybe get out there and try to find a girlfriend, and don't be picky. You probably have high standards.

[adamfk1]

@mid20sgirl86 ...why do you think I know I'm ugly becuase girls tell me that when I approach them . So don't tell me I'm not doing anything . Plus I don't go after attractive girls . I'm not worth thier time

[ThenThereWas1]

Adam, your statement could just as well apply to men. But regardless, it's false. Does my finding this guy attractive add to my desire for him? Of course. Is his appearance the only fuel to my desire? Of course not! I've been attracted to guys that all my friends said things about like, "He's UGLY, how can you be attracted to this guy?" But they didn't know him like I did. All they had was a photo. Don't make ignorant statements, kay?

[pearlywhites101]

Of course that's hot. We as women are biologically drawn to guys that can do that. It makes a girl feel safe and protected, in a sense, to know that there is a big and strong guy around. I think it definitely ups their attractiveness. Not to mention, helping a chick when she needs it is just a nice thing to do in itself. That guy would be cool in my book.

[Sparkling]

Hot indeed. It shows that he's caring (or that he's got good manners). People really do underestimate the sexyness of good manners. Good manners show that you give a f*ck about people around you, and that is sexy.

If that guy happens to be a looker (and perhaps has some nice arm/shoulder muscles to flex when he's lifting that stuff) that is a major plus. Guy candy for the win.

[Sparkling]

Forgot to add that if said guy was to make a joke about me a) not being able to carry it, or b) shouldn't carry it, [and here comes the important part] because of my gender (!), that hotness would drop to below zero.

[LittleMissGriff]

Very much depends. Is it something I don't seem to be having any problem with on my own? No, it's very much not hot and additionally, it's insulting. I always prefer being asked first, because if I can do it myself, I will. However, a guy offering to help is always appreciated even if I don't need it, and if I DO, you've just made yourself my knight in shining armor.

[RedSmartie]

I don't really think of it as hot and sexy as much as I think of it as sweet. If I can't lift something (or get something down from a high place) and a guy does that for me, it shows that he cares enough to help me when I've reached my limits.

But either way it's really nice.

[Anonymous]

Not, I'm stubborn and too independent for my own good. I would find it a bit patronizing. If I was struggling and asked if he could help, or I asked for help then it would be fine, but if I guy just presumed that I needed his help it would p*iss me off. (Im a complex, I know) haha.

[999freakshow]

Yes, very hot :D It makes me feel like a saved damsel in distress :D I love it when guys display their physical superiority to girls :D

[KittyLink]

HOT? Maybe if he's helping me out half naked? shirt off and has a decent body?

It's simply a nice gesture! I don't relate that to hot, unless I'm attracted to him.

[douchebag4eva]

hmm she doesn't seem to complain when I lift HER up half naked :p but that's probably cause she's thinjing about biting me

[KittyLink]

o_o wot!

[NoOneListens21]

Yes it's sexy<3 BUT it's not sexy if he says something along the lines of mi being a woman and not being able to do it. -______- lol.

[DanAG]

Goes both ways. I want to see her try first. Giving up without trying isn't sexy. If I'm going fix her car for for her she should at least have the hood up and look around. (Even if she has no idea what she's looking at.)

[NoOneListens21]

LOL. You only want her to look under the hood because you probably think it's cute when she looks clueless XD

[MalloryJay]

No. lol. It does not impress me. It makes me feel like they think I can't do it by myself. I'm not a wimp, I can do it myself usually. And if I can't, I'll ask for help.

[Prettygurl12]

Nah. I'm thankful that he would lift it for me, but the act of him doing so doesn't make him more or less attractive. It's simply called manners and helping someone out. No more, no less.

[cazza3]

Neither. Its just basic manners as long as he's doing it because I ask ,not because he thinks I'm incapable of doing something for myself

[Robotic]

but if he clearly sees you struggle and he offers to help do you get mad at him for asking?

[cazza3]

Not at all. I can say no thanks I'm fine if needs be but a guy offering to help a woman he sees may need help is just manners and that is sexy. My major pet peeve is people without manners or who just turn ignorant when help is offered. Manners cost nothing.

[celestialdaeva]

It's not so much the visual of them lifting the heavy thing as it is the notion that they want to be the hero and help. Heroes are hot.

[thanhiii]

not hot - just a very nice gesture. I definitely appreciate a guy who can help me without me having to ask him.

[PixieDust]

Exactly what I'm thinking.

[lauramor]

Hot butonce a guy tried to lift something up for me and he couldn't so that was really really funy

[emzy-89]

It's not that I find it 'hot' but it implies good manners and that's something that is very attractive, especially because these days its so rare.

[adamfk1]

its not rare but you only want good looking guys to do it that's why its rare

[PixieDust]

Agree totally.

[emzy-89]

@adammfk1: Ummm, so not true. I don't care what the guy looks like. Manners are manners.

[CatholicVirginia]

It is nice, but what's really the turn on for me is just that he's helping me. Heavy or light, if he's being thoughtful, I like it.

[Anonymous]

Of course.

Not only is he ABLE to do something that requires strength (which is sexy in itself), he's also being sweet to help me.

Sexy! :-)

[my2cents]

It's only hot if I find the guy attractive to begin with. If he's handy too then that is a bonus.

[marissalr]

Mainly I think of him as a gentleman. anything more would require him to be attractive to me.

[Anonymous]

Not really. It's helpful, but it's not really hot. Unless maybe he was really attractive and shirtless or something, but he could be doing any number of things then and it'd still be hot.

[adamfk1]

girls only care about looks :'( I'm going to die alone

[Opinion Owner]

Never said that, but they certainly help. I'm pretty sure if a hot chick was doing something unattractive it'd make it a hell of a lot more attractive to you, too.

[elicassidy]

NO! I find it insulting, I don't like it..

[Robotic]

Insulting? why?

[elicassidy]

I don't like being seen as a weak helpless thing.. (may perhaps be due to my height-complex.. am short XD.. )

[Anonymous]

Whether I think it is hot or sexy depends on if he is hot and sexy. If he isn't attractive to me then no I won't find it hot or sexy, I'll think he is a gentleman or strong or something.

[kangaru]

No. I will only feel grateful and find him a helpful pax

[Anonymous]

would that something heavy be a big diamond ring? hehe;D

[Anonymous]

Very hot if I'm already struggling.

Rude if they just assume I can't lift whatever it is.

[rudethingsinlife]

I think it is very hot. Such a gentlemen move and we want that kind of guy in our life.

[Anonymous]

I can't lift heavy things... :( but my ingenious efficient methods makes up for it. :)

[Alexias]

No, I think it's nice of him.

[mizzv]

SEXY! Most definitely...

[Deft_maiden]

Neither. I think what a gentleman

[BehindTheFront]

Only if he lifts me ;)

[Robotic]

you look like you'd be fun to lift ;)

[anonymous0418]

Not at all. I just think it's nice.

[PoeticNinja]

If he was attractive, yes.

[calialltheway1993]

Not just hot, but I'd feel special for helping me.

[CallaLily]

hot...very :)

[Anonymous]

if he is good looking then probably lol

[ThenThereWas1]

Bingo! ;D

[adamfk1]

girls only care about looks :'( I'm going to die alone

[hopeless2495]

Extreme HOT!