+1 yToo many to list. I'll list some of the worst:
1) My telling him not to hurt me in a certain way (because I am physically sensitive, yet he was convinced it wouldn't hurt me) and yet he did anyway, a second later! And it hurt!
2) His administration of the silent treatment for my habit of speaking my mind
3) His threatening to hurt himself/overexert himself because I didn't agree with him
4) His refusal to hold my hand in public because he was mad at me for getting upset over something legitimate
5) His constant blathering of how other women (even my friends, my mom, girls he used to know, etc.) were so hot, and acting offended when I would get upset and ask for his attention to be directed to me instead.
6) His lying to me about his values in the beginning and telling me the truth AFTER the relationship, leaving me feeling stuck with him
7) His choosing the side of his "platonic" friend over me after she gave me a hard time over nothing
8) His manipulation of me, and my being miserable, and feeling like something was wrong with him deep down in my gut, but he and my mind were both blaming me.
9) His action of hurting me physically for no reason, and when I later asked why he didn't stop, he excused himself in a way that showed he clearly enjoyed it (sadism)
10) His action turning my best friend against me through lies and manipulation after we broke up
11) Getting told "don't cry" as he is clearly enjoying seeing me cry, and previously mentioned that "girls are most beautiful right after they cry"
Some things they did, which I didn't list, were so horrible that they left me numb and detached almost immediately.12 Reply- +1 y
Aww. Yeah it was bad, but at least I learned.
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He was cheating on me for six months that wee were together that was my ex, my boyfriend didn't want to hole my hand because hurt his feeling when I told him stare much because he was literally starting at this girl jogging and it want even a glance he denied it told me to not hold his hand and that it was all my fault, when we were dating he told me he was going to pick me up asst a certain time and to be ready so I got all dolled up, waited waited waited called him he said I will be there inn a bit, so I waited waited called him and he said oh I'm not home I'm asst my friends house sms I could here his stupid friend talking on the background about how they were going to go to a gig and of course I cried and he seemed to get a kick out of it cause he laughed and said Awwwwwwe your crying that's too bad but don't worry oh I got him back with the same treatment he doesn't act like that anymore
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He ditched you for a gig and enjoyed hearing you cry? Jhdkhdhdfasjfdu
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Yup messed up I did that back to him brook up with him for a month and he's not like that now I told him the only way I will get back with him is of he stops being such a jerk and if he hurts me in any way life that it's over for good he told me sorry and he hadn't did anything like that again
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GOOD. Lay down the law, girl! He's better treat you right.
I've made a lot of girls cry. :P
The first one was in kindergarten.. I pulled a little girl's hair so hard she started crying..
I got in trouble... They asked me why I did it, and I said "cuz she's ugly"... So they called my mom...
cuz they wanted a reasonable answer... She asked me why I did it.. and I said "cuz she's ugly and if they sit her next to me I'll do it again".
I'm nice now.. to nice people.. :]
I might have cried once over a jerk... he lied so damn much.. then I became immune to it.. I'll never cry over a guy again..02 Reply- +1 y
LOLLL at the kindergarten story, but mean... sucks about the one guy ruining it for everyone else... Someone once told me if you don't cry when you lose something then you never really cared that much to start with... O wait...
Yeah I made my then girlfriend cry by calling her a bitch. She had kinda pissed me off a little before that and then she started playing around with my textbooks and was messing them up so I said 'stop it bitch' and she ended up crying which I deeply regretted and managed to console her by apologizing like a million times.
She also told me she used to cry every night because I didn't trust her as she kept talking about her ex during our 3 month relationship and voila she leaves me after 3 months of caring about her so much that I ditched my friends because she used to feel lonely. She leaves me becasue she says she's realized that her ex is the one for her.
I would take back calling her a bitch but honestly she deserved at along with a really big verbal thrashing which would have made her cry like crazy but I refrained from it because I still care about her.
Some people need to feel bad about themselves at times. Someone should make those sort of people cry for being who they are.14 Reply- +1 y
Wow, that got to cut a girl. If my boyfriend ever call me a bitch, I would dump him on the spot. Name calling is unnecessary and I can see why she moved on. You can't verbally abuse someone and hope that they care about you as much as you care for them.
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I did that once and I regret it. If that seriously was the reason she moved on, then I have no right to complain about anything. I often call my female friends bitch when I'm annoyed and she was one of my best friends before we began dating and every single one of them knows that I never ever mean it and say it because I'm a hothead.
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I warned my boyfriend to never EVER call me that. And the moment he did, I dumped his ass the next day. Ultimate disrespect.
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@SparklingFirefly Sounds like you are one then.
+1 yI actually made my girlfriend cry about two months ago because I told her I didn't trust her, and wouldn't you know it after a few hours of that and me leaving I get an angry drunken phone call while I'm driving back home from Raleigh telling me she hates me and that she did cheat on me. Shocker...
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Asker+1 yPlease don't tell me your still with her
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Nope. I refused to speak to her for a few months and she tried a couple of times over the next year to get back together but I knew I'd never trust her again if she could do that after 3 years. So I got a new number right after I graduated undergrad.
Asker+1 yI mean before you knew she cheated you didn't trust her..so she's dumb trying to get back after she already proved her self wrong...What you did was good...because if you go back with her she will surely do it again and again
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Omg, I'm so sorry. :(
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Confession, so juicy.
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I was studying with a female friend and playing music on my computer when my iTunes played a sad song that must've hit her a certain way. She tried to hide that she was crying, and then ran out of the room. :/ I felt really bad, even though I didn't really do anything in particular?
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+1 yI don't cry very often at all. I've made my boyfriend cry, but he has yet to make me cry.
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Asker+1 yTough ass!
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Yeah...I didn't try to make him cry though. I felt really bad haha
yea. plenty of times but as far as I remember I made one cry by just feeding her the truth. I think I made another cry outside my vision zone back in high school after I accidently broke her heart, but she when to rampage mode in a matter of seconds
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Asker+1 yHahaha "feeding her the truth"
+1 yI refused to hug her because she wanted to get a picture with me, oh and I ignored her for the rest of the night too. I regret nothing.
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You treated her like that because she wanted to take a picture with you? Uh yeah that makes sense. Sounds like you need help.
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I had major self-image issues back then, still do sort of. Nobody's going to coerce me into doing something I don't want to do though, I won't stand for that.
Asker+1 yI mean if you don't wanna take a photo with her then that's fine she shouldn't bug u..and come on mann, you can't ignore her just because she wanted a pic...take it easy on her lol
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She knew I didn't do pictures and she yet she persisted. She knew I was like super duper self-conscious. I didn't even take pictures with family members. I didn't do school pictures either.
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yHe took my virginity and dumped me the next day in a text message that said I was too easy.
I cried for a while about that one.36 Reply- +1 y
Vkvgleag that makes me rage. I'm so sorry. :'(
Opinion Owner+1 yThanks :-)
Asker+1 yThat must suck
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Damn :( That's terrible.
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I'm sorry :-(
Opinion Owner+1 yThanks :-)
I survived it. Live and learn.
+1 yI have, and I'm not ashamed of it, she deserved it. Things happen for a reason. Tough love.
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Asker+1 yYeah some chicks need to be done like that
Anonymous(36-45)+1 yWhen I was a little kid, this girl wouldn't let me play on the swing set so I threw a basketball at her face. pretty sure she cried. lol... Don't think I have since then, maybe some did because I wouldn't go out with them but nothing bad.
40 Replywhen I was in 5th grade someone gave a note said some random girl has a crush on me, so I ripped up the note and threw it about couple of min later some girl just started crying and stormed out of the class room
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+1 yMy tears don't run down my cheeks for just anyone. I have only had 2 guys who hurt me bad and made me shed tears.
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:| thank you
I told her she was not my mother
he never told me he had a girlfriend I found out and
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+1 yI certainly gave her something to cry about! >:D
... Toy Story 3, for her birthday :P20 Replyno , but girls make me cry everyday because I'm ugly and none of them want to date me
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+1 ywe broke up but I don't cry when I'm sad. I only cried when he frustrated me too much
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+1 yJust a break up. We both were sad. She cried, but we had to move on.
10 Replymy sister... but she deserved it. hehe
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Asker+1 yLol
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Bad ass
Asker+1 yWatch out everybody, we got a bad ass over here hahaha...jk
+1 yI found out a guy I was dating was talking to another girl :/
00 ReplyYes my boyfriends have made me cry by their actions. My boyfriend has cried because of me too.
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+1 yOne beat the crap out of me daily sometimes other things happened and the other guy cheated on me both different guys made me cry
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Awful :(
Yeah. I said something that put her in her place.
10 ReplyI'm sure I have, just not that I'm aware of!
00 ReplyPlenty. I used to be a prick
22 ReplyProbably.
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Asker+1 yLol
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