Break Up & Divorce

How to deal with being in a physical and verbally abusive relationship when there is kids involved?

I had been physical abuse by my child father so many times from choking me to him slapping my body to the floor and I got fed up with it. So now we not living together but he wants to see his son but I'm afraid if I come...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

How to heal from 8 year relationship ended with cheating and he lives with her?

It was 2 years and it still hurt to see them together.. he left me for her on our wedding day..

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Do I fight for my ex fiancé back? Was breaking up the wrong choice?

Been together for a couple years engaged for majority of the time together. Known each other for a decade prior. We separated almost a month ago. Not because we didn’t love each other. Not because of serious...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Girls, how would you feel if you realized you’re better at self-defense than your boyfriend or husband & he’d rely on you more if something happened?

My wife and I signed up for a realism based self defense class awhile ago after an uptick in crime in our city and a few close encounters. We both decided we'd like to know what to do if something happened again. She is...

newgy34

Xper 1 Age: 40

Break Up & Divorce

My boyfriend wants out of our open relationship and I feel betrayed?

So, my boyfriend and I have been together for six years—five of those in an open relationship. He was the one who first suggested we open things up. At first, I wasn’t comfortable with the idea, but eventually, I became...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

II always give my heart away and it gets given back broken?

I don't know if I can cope with more rejection anymore. Is it just better to be alone?

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

When men cheat on their women how do you cope with not feeling good enough?

My ex used to talk to a bunch of girls and like/love their social media pictures while we were dating. It bothered me, a knew it was a red flag, and never spoke on my jealous feelings. In a break by accident I overheard...

Honey3157

Xper 5 Age: 46

Break Up & Divorce

How far ahead should you think when leaving a relationship starting a new relationship?

My marriage has been bad for years... The entire time 20 years. We hit rock bottom two years ago and sleeping separately mostly since. I met this girl online s year ago, I don't think it's long term but I like her. To...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Break Up & Divorce

Does it make you upset and want to step in and help when you see a person being physically or verbally assaulted?

princeofromance

Guru Age: 44

Break Up & Divorce

Don't stay home moms have it easy?

Your dishwasher washes your dishes Your washing machine washes your clothes Your dryer dries your clothes Your kids are away at school 8 to 9 hours a day. The floors dont have to be mopped or cleaned everyday. So why...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

When we give dating advice to the opposite gender do we often make the mistake of assuming the other guy/girl thinks the same way we do?

When I give dating advice to women I can relate to other men and understand how they think. But I know not everything other guy out there thinks the same way I do. Relatable but not the same. I remember giving advice to a...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

How do you see this?

When I was married a decade ago, I had an affair with a 22 year old guy. My wife was 10 years older than me, and I just lost attraction to her as she aged. She got fat, wrinkly etc. Our sex life stopped completely. We...

Jackguyy

Xper 1 Age: 58

Break Up & Divorce

Is my ex happy married?

My ex keeps bringing up our past relationship and the woulda, could, shoulda when I moved on a decade ago after our divorce We co parent and only have a relationship because of this I travel and thriving solo , but...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Do you think 2 wrongs make a right?

I cheated on my boyfriend and left him because he was emotionally and physically abusive to me and I tried to break up with him over and over and he was just abusive then and now he tried to get back with me and work...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Break Up & Divorce

Am I bad for wanting to leave my husband?

I Met my husband when he was broke, he moved to a new country and was looking for a job as a dj, he asked me out on a date and i was surprised that he wanted a relationship while having almost no money. He was staying at...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

How do you fix a broken heart?

In your opinion... how do you fix a broken heart?

7Phoenix7

Guru Age: 35

Break Up & Divorce

My ex wants me back after breaking up with me?

My ex once a time told me that he was changed and wanted to break up with me then blocked me everywhere without caring about how much I cried and how I will get over it. Then after 4 months we contacted again and I agreed...

Anonymous

(18-24)