Are you one of those persons that looks down on long distance relationships? Do you judge off the statistics of people failing at long distance relationships? I actually failed at a long distance relationship also and it left me with some horrified memories and a world of pain as deep as the ocean goes. Infact, I still cruise down memory lane on some nights and and recap on things, trying to figure out where did I go wrong and what If's. Like what if I did this differently or did that... I even often wonder if she still thinks of me...
But let me get back on track, I apologize. I notice people refuse to ever give a long distance relationship a try because of various reasons like trust, honestly & loyalty, your always gonna wonder where he/she is, or are they telling the truth. I look in my city and my god I see countless flawless women... But for some reason I often feel weird, like an outcast. Just a Hansome guy. I have very well manners and I'm intellengent and respectful. I know how to treat a woman and talk to her and all that good stuff but I think my problem is... I'm very quiet the begin with. It's hard to get more than a yes or no outta me because I'm probably still assessing your personality and checking for ulterior motives to your questions and actions.
Anyway I don't exactly take pleasure in seeking women from across the world , but it is more delightful to run into someone from different cultures and people that speak different languages... It's a turn on and it's exciting to learn their ways of life. How the communicate and stuff... I get so tired of people around me with a casual way of thinking and that one track state of mind... It's almost like a rerun... I guess what pains me most is... A lot of the women I've gravitate to have families that have certain beliefs, such as races should not mix outside of eachother... I've once found the most beautiful amazing Indian girl and.... She was very intelligent but the fact that her family happened to be one of those that doesn't take too kindly to black people.... And its a lot more races or colors that will send subliminal messages that mixing races is a bad idea... 😔 I don't see a skin color I just see beauty. At times like these I often believe the world would benefit from color blindness...
Anyway I don't know if a lot of you feel the way I do about long distance relationships but I just wanted to share a few words passing through my brain... The point was kinda distorted a little bit due to my ranting about my personal experiences... Not trying sound like a cry baby but to be honest that's probably been my biggest problem all my life.. I usually date outside my race and all of the girls that are attracted to me just absoloutely adore me but it becomes a problem when it's time to let families and friends see my skin color, people are always down talking me, saying I'll beat her or I'll be a theif or gang member or some killer. My looks is a plus but the stereotype that hangs over my head weighs heavy and therefore I have to work extreamely hard to keep a decent amazing woman in my life... But back on those long distance relationships, I feel you only live once, and far be it for someone to throw away an amazing vibe/connection you've made with someone just because they live somewhere. Do you really want to stay stagnant and tied to one part of the world? Never seeing the lands of Egypt,or China, or Japan, or Australia, etc...?
I've been in Cali since I was 2 years old and I'm from New Orleans Louisana and I'm in Los Angeles. The women here are great and so are all the people but like I said, you only live once and I'd like to see things and meet new people before I take that big dirt nap, wouldn't you?
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