She's not a bitch. She's just not into you. (Page 2)
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"He's not a jerk, he just only wanted to have sex with you."
Believe it or not - people get emotionally hurt for various reasons and caling them derogatory terms is a mere valve and nothing else.
"'He's not a jerk, he just only wanted to have sex with you.'"
If he lied or was not up front about only wanting sex with woman, than he is a jerk, just as a woman who lies and is not up front about not being into a guy is a jerk.
Most people I know do not use derogatory terms when rejected. Those who do are not behaving wisely. I don't accept that using derogatory terms is inevitable. Whereas it might be "a mere valve and nothing else" to the one using them, it can hurt the one receiving them.
Neither did I say everyone does it nor did I say it is inevitable.
Also I think people should stop being so overly sensitive. Someone calls you whatever? So what? Life goes on. Offense is given, but also taken. It's only a big deal if you make it one.
If I get rejected, I may use her for friendship networking reasons.
But I usually don't. Most of the time it is deuces and we part ways.
#ProfDonForAdmin
You are wise, Prof_Don.
Look I'm just frustrated I can't find someone who has mutual attraction to me. At this point I don't care if I hurt her feelings I just want to vent my anger. She can be as respectable as she wants but somebody's gotta hear it.
It's very understandable to feel frustrated and angry at the situation (and there's a difference between being angry at a person and being angry at a situation).
Why not vent your anger to me? Message me if you like. You have my word (for whatever that's worth) that I'll keep your identity anonymous Maybe I could offer insight. Or if you don't want to message me, just spill the beans here. Maybe someone can offer you insight.
Food job.
I knew you had it in you.
I'll be patiently waiting for a part 2.
Food job?
Good job.
Damned touch screen QWERTY keyboards.
(Note that the F&G keys are immediately adjacent to each other.)
It's also getting near my lunchtime...
food on the brain.🍝🍜🍔🍰
Oh, and here I thought that was some kind weird fetish. ;)
Thank you! Thank The Lord someone actually wrote this take!
Stay tuned for my next mytake.
Thank you! Great take! Support a person's right to say no!
Thank you. Stay tuned for the next part.
And speaking of a person's right to say no, you might be interested in this take
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a11240-not-another-friend-zone-take
Well I agree with you at all point... and also I was considering to post a take on this!
Again gr8 take
Thank you. Stay tuned for part two.
You might be interested in this take
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a11240-not-another-friend-zone-take
well i'll label women as bitch if they don't like or into me, so there is nothing i can do about it even if i'm handsome or not, there are several factors on how a woman is attracted to a man.
Well aren't you a pitiful little man.
I doubt your bitch labeling will serve you well in life, JustinX9.
Firstly, do you call yourself bad names for rejecting people? Secondly, does it not bother you in the least that you are hurting someone who doesn't deserve to be hurt?
damn man what i meant was i'll never label a woman a bitch...*i forgot to place "never"
Oh, well that word "never" changes everything.
You're wiser than I took you for, JustinX9.
@Take Owner i'm not a pushover, i dont want to force myself to a girl who doesn't or will never like me back. its a waste of time and make myself worse
You might be interested in this take
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a11240-not-another-friend-zone-take
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Hmm. That's odd. Well just look under bluemax's mytakes.
She's not a bitch. She just doesn't care about you.
In many cases, she does care about you. She just isn't into you as far as dating or having a relationship goes. If a male friend of yours came out of the closet and said he was into you, I believe you would almost certainly reject him, but would you stop caring about him?
It's human nature to care at least somewhat, nobody forgets that you told them you like them
It's been my experience that women don't give two shits and have no preference whether you die homeless or have a happy content life if you have no value to them personally. It's also been my experience that women get a perverse pleasure from rejecting men in casual pick situations and otherwise denigrating them in "close" friendships. Marriage is emasculating domestication. It's what they're biologically programmed to do.
Bitches can't even fucking say, "No thank you." That's just reality. So excuse me if I don't give two shits about their "feelings" or whatever the fuck they're bitching about when they make these stupid ass posts.
But sometimes, she's just a bitch.
Yes, of course. However she isn't a bitch by virtue of rejecting you. If she turns out to be a bitch, her rejection has done you a favor.
No, she's a bitch because she kicked my puppy and siphoned out my gas tank.
Wow. Did a woman actually kick your puppy and siphon out your gas?
No, I'm just making things up.
Poor guy, I bet he would go to hell and back twice to be with that girl.
Perhaps he would, but it's better to find someone who would go to hell and back with you rather than going to hell and back for someone who cannot return your feelings. Don't you agree?
I see your point, but a lot of girls get annoyed by guys like this and don't even give it a second thought.
"and don't even give it a second thought."
You know, it's been my experience that that most women feel bad about rejecting a guy. I believe most do think about it to some extent, but they can only dwell on it so much because it makes them feel bad.
As for not giving a guy a second chance (I know you said "second thought," not "second chance," but some people might mistake the two for being the same), that might be the subject of a future take.
@Take Owner Dude, you're old. Things are a LOT different now than they were back then. Bitches these days can't even cook.
Men respond much better to rejection than women do, generally.
Why do you say that? I don't agree.
Many women have near-breakdowns if they get rejected just once!
Furthermore, you take exception to the word 'shallow', and I agree with you there. But, where did that use of that word come from? Well, it was originally used by women against men.
And what's the common narrative if John doesn't want to have a relationship with Jane? Does Jane need to improve her personality to persuade John? No. John is simply an "asshole", "misogynist", "playboy", "immature", "douchebag", "dick", "man-boy", or (a newly-coined expression) "fuckboy" etc. The rage against men with standards is so great that it has even spawned its own political movements, such as the 'fat acceptance' movement.
That just hasn't been my experience at all. No woman I know has had a near breakdown from being rejected. I have personally known a guy who smashed his hand through a window at being rejected. I've known a guy who slashed a girl's tires for being rejected, then proceeded to stalk her and threaten her. I've known a guy who couldn't sleep for days and spent his nights weeping because a girl rejected him, then proceed to smash his hands through a closet door.
You should ask other people. I think their observations would be similar to mine.
Yawn. The same bad assumption that only men take rejection badly and only girls reject dating prospects. Welp, that was a waste of my time.
"only men take rejection badly"
I never said or implied any such thing. I will state that between the two sexes, I believe more men react violently or inappropriately than women do in regards to rejection. Even so, those men who react violently or inappropriately are relatively rare.
Reverse the genders and see what would happen. The Feminist
would be like he's a jerk for not giving her a chance.
Well then, go ahead and make a my take about it. See what responses you get.
I wouldn't know where to start and it would be a trap.
"I wouldn't know where to start"
Simple. You write a mytake similar to mine but you reverse the genders.
"and it would be a trap."
Admiral Ackbar much? Sorry, I couldn't resist. Why would it be a trap?
As soon as I or any guy here (including you) say anything about
feminism or feminist you have a target on your back. Those
three people who voted me down, know I'm right but are
blinded and brainwashed by the media.
"As soon as I or any guy here (including you) say anything about
feminism or feminist you have a target on your back."
I don't think that's necessarily true, but even if it is, go ahead and sharpen your intellectual meat hooks, matey! Debate them. Discuss with them.
I suck at writing plus I have a learning disability.
You might like this take
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a11240-not-another-friend-zone-take
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I didn't read it but that's an awesome picture. So much so I felt I had to say so.
It's called Wanderer above the Sea of Fog by Caspar David Friedrich.
This is the best desktop background I have ever had! Thank you!
first impressions are lasting impressions, you can tell them by their body language and how they project themselves.
Yes, body language is important. However, some people have difficulty reading it and some people don't communicate well with their bodies. In such times, I'd say you're going to have to use verbal communication.
they want us to know "we dont like you because of XYZ" how are we to find that or guess..
Just because she's not into you doesn't mean she's *not* a bitch.
its better if they just say hey i don't like you like that,,,, but if they don't tell us they lead us on ,,, that's what pisses me off and makes me want to punch them lol
Yeah really thanks for wasting my life lol
What's even worse is when they lead you on and make you feel like the bad guy in the situation as if you should have the ability to read minds and know they're not interested.
Firstly, let me acknowledge that some women do intentionally lead men on. Secondly, let me state I think that's the overwhelming minority of cases, at least it has been in my experience.
Most of the times, when someone feels led on, it's been my experience that it was a miscommunication and not due to any nefarious intent.
@bloodmountain1990
I agree people should not assume that their hints are coming through loud and clear. I believe that people should communicate rejection clearly and respectfully.
Sure, you don't have to be rude to her, but I would still sever the friendship entirely.
Severing the friendship is often a wise decision. That's why I stated clearly that one should be friendLY, not friends. There is a difference.
You might like this take
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a11240-not-another-friend-zone-take
The site says it doesn't exist lol.
Weird. You're not the first to tell me that. Go directly to my mytakes and tell me if you see it.
Well more understandable as to why men would get angry since men are typically the ones that receive rejection instead of projecting it.
"Well more understandable as to why men would get angry"
I understand getting hurt. I understand feeling some anger at the situation (and the "at the situation" is an important distinction). But I do not understand getting angry at the woman if she honestly and respectfully rejects us.
Well its more so because me being a guy I was dealt with the card of having to approach
I agree men are predominantly expected to do the approaching. Women are predominantly expected to do the waiting. No reason for either of them to get angry at the other if it doesn't work out.