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Why It's Totally Fair That Men Are Expected To Put More Effort Into Dating Than Women Are (From An Evolutionary Perspective) (Page 3)
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Except that guys still have to put in more effort for any type of dating/relationship scenario most of the time.
SO true. Women have higher standards to by men to be pleasing to the male eye so that they can be worthy of any kind of relationship. All a man's gotta do is have a good personality and be average looking.
It doesn't have to cost a fortune for a woman to keep her appearance up. Women wanted jobs and equal pay so now you get to equally pay for dates.
1. Women don't get equal pay.
2. Being a woman is otherwise much more expensive than being a man. Tampons, pads, pap tests, gyno visits, bras, clothes, etc. Paying money on a date with a woman is the least you can do to show that you acknowledge her plight in society.
Now you're just asking for special treatment. Should you get more vacations at work and a raise because of your plight in society?
Men have to pay for medical exams on our junk too. We also have to pay for porn on a regular basis to escape the constant nagging of women.
Not nearly as much as women g e t exams on their genitals, and there is plenty of free porn on the internet
1. Women do get equal pay (recent studies have even shown that women, in higher paying fields, tend to make more than men in the same fields). The wage gap has long been debunked, when considering factors like women take far more time off than men and, until the past 10 years or so, have generally had less higher education and historically went for lower paying jobs (which has since changed). It's also been proven that women with the same credentials are twice as likely to be hired as a man with those credentials.
2. Men have to pay for clothes and doctor's visits, too. Women's health also has far more free and subsidized services than men's health (ie: though prostate cancer kills more men than breast cancer kills women, I've yet to hear of a free prostate exam - yet I have heard of men being turned down for free breast exams).
It's fair because whilst men have to do the chasing, it is women who have to convince us to settle down.
"Bullshit. You are playing up untrue generalizations of male sexuality."
Lmfaoooooooooo hypocrite
Also men are the ones who propose so you could say that men are the ones who have to convince women to settle down
You'll realize the truth in about 10 year's time.
I don't have any desire to date anyone though, because I figured it either ends in divorce or death, so I'm not going to be trying to get men to settle down with me.
It has nothing to do with fairness. It's nature, and nature isn't fair.
Hun men don't get free drinks and so many things like that in dating.
Reproduction is tuff for women but many women says we like having a baby inside but if you don't want then why you are having those babies and reproduction won't happen without men.
Good luck with being a prostitute. Get out there and hit those bricks.
And we think ourselves an advanced species. Silly us.
I would say it's 'natural' as opposed to fair.
Nature's not fair. It just is.
I keep hearing about men putting in more effect when it comes dating. But rarely experienced it! I am ready to build the guy a shrine, if he opens a door for me, or plays for dinner!.
I'm amazed at the number of women on here that think giving birth justifies women doing less for everything. Absolutely amazed by that. Every women can give birth. It's not special.
That's why dogs and prostitutes are a nice guys best friend🙃
"From an evolutionary perspective", huh? Well, crap. If everything is taken from an EVOLUTIONARY perspective in this day and age, I might as well have DIED many years ago. I never asked to be born male.
Women have it worse than men do biologically speaking. Periods childbirth, lesser brute strength etc
What about those of us that don't ever want children?
I am with you, but from an evolutionary perspective, we don't matter. Once we die, none of our genes are passed one. We don't perpetuate the existence of our species.
@YourNextEX I'm ok with that.
noone cares about your uneducated opinion. women are lucky to have us in their lives not the opposite. with such a mindset prepare yourself for lots of loneliness... .
You're the one uneducated because research shows that men have more psychological and physical benefits from marriage than women do
name one
Well now that lots of men don't want children or marriage, this will really bite women in the ass
Men do not simply exist to cater to their emotional or evolutionary needs, so you're right.
Men are individuals with free will.
You didn't mention the fact that guys are still expected to be the initiators
Man's investment in a woman is: Money, time and emotion.
Woman's investment in a man is : sex
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True to an extent.
Such a stupid MyTake