That bitterness is justified. Of all the girls I've ever approached, all but one rejected me, and all but three of the rejections were preceded by dishonest acceptance. The three honest rejections received my gratitude. I literally thanked them for their honesty. (Okay, one of them I knew was giving a bullshit excuse, but the fact that she at least had the decency to say no was what I appreciated.) However, all the other times I got a "yes", followed by them changing their mind. Sometimes something came up. Others, they suddenly had a boyfriend that they didn't have when I asked. Over time, each time the bubble of false hope burst, it became more and more depressing. It's been nearly two years since I last asked a girl out. The previous attempt was about five years before that. (One of the three honest ones, actually.) I've pretty much given up on any sort of connection. The misery of solitude is nothing to the pain of false hope.
I would have just phrased it as, 'what to do if you are interested in the guy', because obviously a woman is not going to make dating easier for a guy she is not interested in. but sometimes a woman is interested in a guy but does all of this bullshit anyway.
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Hahahaha the 1st clip is funny!!! So I'd the 2nd one!!! Bahahaha
Good advices for all the girls, I hope they will use them well, excellent Take.
You slipped into bitterness at point five but otherwise good.
That bitterness is justified.
Of all the girls I've ever approached, all but one rejected me, and all but three of the rejections were preceded by dishonest acceptance. The three honest rejections received my gratitude. I literally thanked them for their honesty. (Okay, one of them I knew was giving a bullshit excuse, but the fact that she at least had the decency to say no was what I appreciated.)
However, all the other times I got a "yes", followed by them changing their mind. Sometimes something came up. Others, they suddenly had a boyfriend that they didn't have when I asked. Over time, each time the bubble of false hope burst, it became more and more depressing. It's been nearly two years since I last asked a girl out. The previous attempt was about five years before that. (One of the three honest ones, actually.) I've pretty much given up on any sort of connection. The misery of solitude is nothing to the pain of false hope.
I agree 100% even more so with the girl expectung guy's to do all the talkint and all the planing... its annoying
I dream of a girl asking me out. It should go both ways. Not always the guy asking. And sometimes 2 dates is where it can click.
Yeah... women will never do any of this sh*t. They want equality, but they want men to do everything in the dating world.
Or maybe you can just man up and go after the girl you want?
You sound like these manginas on FOX telling men to man up
https://youtu.be/k6r3B9RU8IA
@myTakeOwner, maybe u associate reality with youtube
You really think women want to make life easier for men? It gets them off to torture men.
Great take, all you here is women trying to stop slut shaming and producing takes on how men should treat women when it comes to dating.
This would be too much for them.
definitely agree with this
I would have just phrased it as, 'what to do if you are interested in the guy', because obviously a woman is not going to make dating easier for a guy she is not interested in. but sometimes a woman is interested in a guy but does all of this bullshit anyway.
Nice, well-written take.
Human mating will always be cruel