I'm in the process of writing a take on personality right now. I'm a visual person, I'm attracted to beautiful people. Being able to appreciate someone's appearance but be strongly attracted to their personality is not a complicated thought. If that's too difficult for you to understand, don't bother.
Define an unattractive guy. I never stated anything about what I find to be unattractive. You're just pulling shit out of your ass, being one of those guys who thinks he knows how all women work or something. You can't assume from a single MyTake what I find attractive. It also doesn't effect you at all. If I think a guy is unattractive it will always be my business. You don't know anything, 30-35, male anon.
You've got to be joking. Is that your logic? I find people who work in an industry that focuses on appearance to be attractive, so that equals that anyone who is not is unattractive to me? That's basically what you're saying. I think attractive people are attractive? You know so much about what I find attractive. You sound absurd, stop.
It was pointless to you. Other people liked it, if you didn't that's fine but since you're 26 and so grown up, why don't you be mature and read something else?
A few. One very much so, he was very open about it. Even used the L word. But we have an interesting past and friendship. So I requested that we out things on hold
Well, not to be rude, but you're only 18 :) your more 'negative' traits haven't really had that much time to settle in. And if you love them, good for you. But really, you're only 18. I got my first boyfriend at 17, and was basically never single for longer than 6 months after that. Things change faster than you think once you leave the high school crowd and spread your wings some.
Well like I've said a bunch of times in the comments, I'm not in a rush or even really trying right now. I haven't even kissed a guy, so trust me I'm not in a hurry. I gave more negative traits, just didn't think they all needed to be stated and I think those depend on who you ask. I know 18 is really young, I'm completely aware, I think a lot of people took this as me being like "I'm already 18 and still no boyfriend" and that's not really how I feel at all. I'm graduated now as well, and usually didn't talk to school boys anyway. I'm doing my own thing, have been and will continue to.
Well yeah, I have had to comment this multiple times already. A lot of people are taking this as me being like "Oh my gosh, I''m 18 and I've never had a boyfriend, I'm gonna die alone" but what I mean is "I've never had a boyfriend for a lot of these reasons and I'm content with it, I'm in no hurry"
@frozenhorizon why do you say that as if I don't know it? like what is everyone's point when they say that? It's not like I'm trying to be a disney princess and get married at 16. I'm not even looking for someone. I didn't even make it out like 18 is so grown up.
Don't take 18 years too seriously. People read forever and see as me saying "I'm gonna die alone cause nobody likes me" I say forever, cause there has only been 1 me, and I have been single the entire time existed.
Oh my god, please, don't pick at shit. 25 and 18 aren't even THAT far apart. That's 7 years, not 40. You get the gist. In this case, forever is just a word.
Lol that 7 gap is further than you'd think. A lot of people have never been in relationships at 18. You still have college years ahead which changes a lot from high school. When you're in twenties it becomes more serious than when you are in your teens. 30 or 40 years I can't imagine going that long with being single
Yeah as far as maturity but no seven is not a big gap, it really isn't. 10+ maybe so but not seven. And like I told everyone else a bunch of times, had you scrolled down, I know I'm only 18. This take isn't me whining over not having a boyfriend yet, I'm simply stating facts. I never seven expressed that I was in a rush or looking for one. I'm content. I'm very tired of this same statement over and over again, I'm not simple, obviously I'm only 18.
I think you're interpreting what I'm saying as a bad thing when it's not meant to be. Going throughout high school without being in relationships is not a flaw by any means. In fact in some ways it's smart. Most people who have high school relationships go nowhere with those relationships. In college things change. I don't think you're too young or anything. I totally agree being single for 18 years if you don't want to be is not fun and as you get older it's worse as people your age start to get married and more and more people are in long term relationships. Chances are you'll find someone within the next few years and won't make it to 25 single.
I don't see it as a flaw. You're saying things that haven't already been said on this very take or even thoughts that I haven't had already. Not trying to sound angry but people just keep saying similar statements over and over again
New thoughts and input can't hurt anyone. No use getting angry when people aren't trying to make you angry. If they are that's a different story. I've created questions on here and people don't answer them maybe how I'd like or intended but I see they took the time to write and I hear out their thoughts. Unless they are intentionally trying to be offensive it's not worth thinking too much about it. We're all just a bunch of random users on an Internet site.
I'm not even angry. Just bored of the same response but different people, especially when scrolling down is so simple. I appreciate it but many are condescending as if I'm not aware that 18 is very young and so on. The comments themselves do not effect me, especially since I'm not really asking for advice. just frustrating because some people just don't know how to use the damn internet
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Yup I got resting bitch face like a mofo 😂
It's so hard to turn off too!
"EVERYONE LOVES MALE MODELS, OKAY!
Personality really does mean more to me though."
Hahahaha. No it doesn't, apparently.
I'm in the process of writing a take on personality right now. I'm a visual person, I'm attracted to beautiful people. Being able to appreciate someone's appearance but be strongly attracted to their personality is not a complicated thought. If that's too difficult for you to understand, don't bother.
The point is that you won't be attracted to an unattractive guy, no matter how great his personality is, and you know it.
Define an unattractive guy. I never stated anything about what I find to be unattractive. You're just pulling shit out of your ass, being one of those guys who thinks he knows how all women work or something. You can't assume from a single MyTake what I find attractive. It also doesn't effect you at all. If I think a guy is unattractive it will always be my business. You don't know anything, 30-35, male anon.
"EVERYONE LOVES MALE MODELS, OKAY!"
Guys who aren't male models, according to you?
You've got to be joking. Is that your logic? I find people who work in an industry that focuses on appearance to be attractive, so that equals that anyone who is not is unattractive to me? That's basically what you're saying. I think attractive people are attractive? You know so much about what I find attractive. You sound absurd, stop.
Uh, you're only 18. Like, it shouldn't be of discussion.
Did you read the comments I've made at all? My whole point was that I don't feel the need to be in a relationship and that I'm in no hurry.
Okay, well good for you? And no, I didn't want to waste time going through the comments. I just feel like this entire mytake is very pointless.
Then why did you read it? Why did you bother to comment if it was so pointless? Since you've got such better things to do, do those things.
Doesn't mean I cannot respond to this pointless mytake and give my two cents to say it for what it was: pointless.
It was pointless to you. Other people liked it, if you didn't that's fine but since you're 26 and so grown up, why don't you be mature and read something else?
Has no guy ever shown interest in you, ever?
A few. One very much so, he was very open about it. Even used the L word. But we have an interesting past and friendship. So I requested that we out things on hold
Well, not to be rude, but you're only 18 :) your more 'negative' traits haven't really had that much time to settle in. And if you love them, good for you. But really, you're only 18. I got my first boyfriend at 17, and was basically never single for longer than 6 months after that. Things change faster than you think once you leave the high school crowd and spread your wings some.
Well like I've said a bunch of times in the comments, I'm not in a rush or even really trying right now. I haven't even kissed a guy, so trust me I'm not in a hurry. I gave more negative traits, just didn't think they all needed to be stated and I think those depend on who you ask. I know 18 is really young, I'm completely aware, I think a lot of people took this as me being like "I'm already 18 and still no boyfriend" and that's not really how I feel at all. I'm graduated now as well, and usually didn't talk to school boys anyway. I'm doing my own thing, have been and will continue to.
Damn you are 18 dude!
Well yeah, I have had to comment this multiple times already. A lot of people are taking this as me being like "Oh my gosh, I''m 18 and I've never had a boyfriend, I'm gonna die alone" but what I mean is "I've never had a boyfriend for a lot of these reasons and I'm content with it, I'm in no hurry"
Point is, 18 is not very old
@frozenhorizon why do you say that as if I don't know it? like what is everyone's point when they say that? It's not like I'm trying to be a disney princess and get married at 16. I'm not even looking for someone. I didn't even make it out like 18 is so grown up.
wow, we should be best friends. lol
Sounds like a deal!
Sounds like a challenge
Bring it
No 18 years isn't forever
Don't take 18 years too seriously. People read forever and see as me saying "I'm gonna die alone cause nobody likes me" I say forever, cause there has only been 1 me, and I have been single the entire time existed.
Try 25 years
Oh my god, please, don't pick at shit. 25 and 18 aren't even THAT far apart. That's 7 years, not 40. You get the gist. In this case, forever is just a word.
Lol that 7 gap is further than you'd think. A lot of people have never been in relationships at 18. You still have college years ahead which changes a lot from high school. When you're in twenties it becomes more serious than when you are in your teens. 30 or 40 years I can't imagine going that long with being single
Yeah as far as maturity but no seven is not a big gap, it really isn't. 10+ maybe so but not seven. And like I told everyone else a bunch of times, had you scrolled down, I know I'm only 18. This take isn't me whining over not having a boyfriend yet, I'm simply stating facts. I never seven expressed that I was in a rush or looking for one. I'm content. I'm very tired of this same statement over and over again, I'm not simple, obviously I'm only 18.
I think you're interpreting what I'm saying as a bad thing when it's not meant to be. Going throughout high school without being in relationships is not a flaw by any means. In fact in some ways it's smart. Most people who have high school relationships go nowhere with those relationships. In college things change. I don't think you're too young or anything. I totally agree being single for 18 years if you don't want to be is not fun and as you get older it's worse as people your age start to get married and more and more people are in long term relationships. Chances are you'll find someone within the next few years and won't make it to 25 single.
I don't see it as a flaw. You're saying things that haven't already been said on this very take or even thoughts that I haven't had already. Not trying to sound angry but people just keep saying similar statements over and over again
New thoughts and input can't hurt anyone. No use getting angry when people aren't trying to make you angry. If they are that's a different story. I've created questions on here and people don't answer them maybe how I'd like or intended but I see they took the time to write and I hear out their thoughts. Unless they are intentionally trying to be offensive it's not worth thinking too much about it. We're all just a bunch of random users on an Internet site.
I'm not even angry. Just bored of the same response but different people, especially when scrolling down is so simple. I appreciate it but many are condescending as if I'm not aware that 18 is very young and so on. The comments themselves do not effect me, especially since I'm not really asking for advice. just frustrating because some people just don't know how to use the damn internet
What response do you want them to tell you? I like your ending. It's good to be optimistic and value yourself. That's most important.
I'm not expecting any response, just that people are capable of understanding mytake, not a unsolicited confident boost
Wow i can totally understand that
Thank you for not commenting on the whole forever thing and try to inspire me or something. I know I'm young, and I'm not in a rush.
GOSH we're the same !!
its ur life, u can be alone, no one cares
You'd be surprised how many people try to hook you up and ensure you the right guy will come around real soon, but thanks for the obvious facts.
dont think that its only with guys try to hook up... they do it with every female, so no surprise
That's not what I was saying. I was saying when people try to pair you off, like set you up on dates. Not actually hooking up.
Love this!!
Thank you!
You are wrong
Why am I wrong?
Not forever
I didn't say I would be single forever, I said I have been, which is a fact.
I get it booty.