There's a big problem here. The perfect person (perfect for us that is... not literally perfect) are always gonna seem 'too good to be true.' Are you gonna dismiss all of them based on one douche's behavior?
EXACTLY! that is why i despise good looking men even though some might not be as u described, but surely most are! But hey, i'm a good looking girl too so the intimidation won't be one sided at all ;)
Does the asker sound like she was rejecting nice guys that weren't studs for a douchebag? She had no clue he was a douchebag, and left him alone as soon as she had an inkling. Take a gander at the subreddit niceguys, they are not so nice.
So because you met one asshole us girls are not supposed to date men that we are not attracted to? I do not think so. Men like that usually leave red flags that some women ignore. Im not blaming you but Im not going to date a guy who is ugly. Next time get to know the guy
I just hope there might some decent "Hot" guys out there. I try not think of girls/women as types but individuals so I will judge each person as I meet them.
Sorry about your experience but there's plenty of hot guys that are genuinely sweet. I used to think like you because a lot of hot guys are supremely arrogant. Anyways try hot Catholic guys.
So that's why girls aren't stepping over themselves to get with me. They read this Take and aren't dating the hot guy. Must be too attractive for them then. Thanks for clarifying.
Any guy can do this, although I guess it's easier for more attractive guys, it doesn't make all attractive guys behave like this. But hey, if you want to date not super hot guys, more power to you
Story of my life. That's a really nice topic for myTakes. I wish too that my ex would have been honest to me. And that caused a negative opinion of mine over the hot guys.
For some weird reason I attract a lot of women's attention. I get a lot of girls looking at me and getting all shy and nervous as well as a lot of genuine smiles and blushing. I'm not physically attractive and I try to come across as neutral.
I tried dating the super hot guy but he turned out to be a joke. Now I have to wonderful boyfriend who in my mind is the hottest guy ever. And my neighbor who's 16 is attractive yes but a complete jerk. Why are so many hot guys like that?
He is not too good to be true. He is just an handsome man who acts like a teen. Well, first year in college that's normal. You need to have self conf. At leasr don't be afraid of men like that
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There's a big problem here. The perfect person (perfect for us that is... not literally perfect) are always gonna seem 'too good to be true.' Are you gonna dismiss all of them based on one douche's behavior?
EXACTLY! that is why i despise good looking men even though some might not be as u described, but surely most are! But hey, i'm a good looking girl too so the intimidation won't be one sided at all ;)
Well, he probably has tons of girls throwing themselves at him.. can you blame him?
YOLO why would he stick to just one, when he can have whatever he wants?
Seems tempting.
That's how god punishes women when they reject good caring loyal nice guys for tall jacked douchbags and pretty boy players.
m'lady.
@Spelling95 Look at all those down votes lol women absolutley hate the truth.
Does the asker sound like she was rejecting nice guys that weren't studs for a douchebag? She had no clue he was a douchebag, and left him alone as soon as she had an inkling.
Take a gander at the subreddit niceguys, they are not so nice.
Right because guys never reject a woman just because she didn't look like a supermodel. 😂😂
So because you met one asshole us girls are not supposed to date men that we are not attracted to? I do not think so. Men like that usually leave red flags that some women ignore. Im not blaming you but Im not going to date a guy who is ugly. Next time get to know the guy
I just hope there might some decent "Hot" guys out there. I try not think of girls/women as types but individuals so I will judge each person as I meet them.
Sorry about your experience but there's plenty of hot guys that are genuinely sweet. I used to think like you because a lot of hot guys are supremely arrogant. Anyways try hot Catholic guys.
So that's why girls aren't stepping over themselves to get with me. They read this Take and aren't dating the hot guy. Must be too attractive for them then. Thanks for clarifying.
Any guy can do this, although I guess it's easier for more attractive guys, it doesn't make all attractive guys behave like this. But hey, if you want to date not super hot guys, more power to you
Story of my life.
That's a really nice topic for myTakes.
I wish too that my ex would have been honest to me. And that caused a negative opinion of mine over the hot guys.
I have an idea. Let's blame an entire group of people for the actions of a few. That'll really make things better.
For some weird reason I attract a lot of women's attention. I get a lot of girls looking at me and getting all shy and nervous as well as a lot of genuine smiles and blushing. I'm not physically attractive and I try to come across as neutral.
I tried dating the super hot guy but he turned out to be a joke.
Now I have to wonderful boyfriend who in my mind is the hottest guy ever. And my neighbor who's 16 is attractive yes but a complete jerk.
Why are so many hot guys like that?
Cause they have many options
@singlebee what does that mean?
Basically they can get any girl they want which for some hot guys gives them a massive ego.
@coolchick4 oh okay. I get it now
TBH even the mediocre looking guys behave like this 😒
Titel should be;
"Why you should never date guys, cause theyre all the same"
Nice take tho :)
Who are you dating now?
Am pretty sure there was a good caring loyal nice guy you turned down the other day?
@Djaaaaaay She's dating a person with a penis, but it doesn't identify as a man, therefore, it's not a "guy".
@AleDeEurope Hahaha. !! Right.. I really didn't care , just found it funny
Uh oh. We got a lesbian in the house boys!
Ha, outside of the fact that I'm very married, I'm perfect dating material, as I am completely not hot ;-)
He is not too good to be true. He is just an handsome man who acts like a teen. Well, first year in college that's normal. You need to have self conf. At leasr don't be afraid of men like that
I don't think him being hot is the issue, I have a friend who is considered hot and he treats girls with respect.
I don't think this necessarily means all good looking guys are bad but I get your point.
Sorry that happened to you.
so because you were naive this one time all other girls shouldn't be dating hot guys anymore?