I think this is a good take. I am reading through a lot of male comments and its laughable. You know, Im not a nice guy at all, but holding the door open for a woman, pulling a chair out and treating her with respect is not a nice guy trait, its called courtesy.
OP Help me out a little. I have put girls in their place before when they're being bossy, annoying, bitchy. etc. The problem I find is this just makes the problem worse. Now they think of me as an asshole and they hold it over my head and tell all their friends about how I'm just a horrible guy, when the truth is I'm tired of the girl trying to make me into whoever she wants me to be.
If you want the perks of the nice guys then you gotta take the burdens too... It's just like a guy dating a hot girl... it ain't all rainbows and sunshines..
If you ask for everything, you may end up with nothing. If life gives you lemons..
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So true. And well said.
But just like the girls who tell guys that height is not the most important thing in the world, or cock size, or whatever, the "nice" guys who desperately need to hear this and take it on board, won't. Because in their mind, there is nothing wrong with them. They are "nice". And that's just fine.
Back to the usual nice guy shaming, yet men get hated on for slut shaming and other shaming of women. Better to be a nice guy then any of those other things you get shamed for. Usual double standards with women, oh dear im gonna get hate for double standard shaming now.
In other words: My only "humble" requirement is someone that comforts to my very strict and limited ideas and whims at any given moment. And I just sit here and think, ok then, what are you good for?
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Yeah, that's normal.
Unfortunately, our society and culture do a really really terrible job of taking nice young boys and turning them into nice, confident men. We basically tell them to stay as well behaved boys, while their asshole peers run off quickly and become shitty young men.
The 34 year old woman now decides she's going to give up on nice guys because all the good one's married someone else. Nicely done, lady, good luck. I can't wait till your new Take at 43.
What the shit? This sounds like some little girl who wants some weak minded moron to get in some shitty drama filled relationship which is completely useless. And what do you think a relationship is? Fuck nice guys, fuck nice girls, throw that all out the window. What do you think a boyfriend/girlfriend honestly do? EVERY relationship is different, from person to person. Let me know what the hell you think an actual relationship does.
And then they try to compensate shitty looks with being nice, which is very unattractive trait and this pushes them even dipper in the shit. Nice = feminine. Rude, cocky, jerk, dumbass, primitive ape etc = masculine. Now implement this, maybe it could work, maybe, still better than ugly looks + being nice, which is gay as fuck. But if you really want a solution that works, here it is: MONEY
i thought she wanted to be their girlfriend... but it sounds like she wants to be their boyfriend... im totally confused now. dafuq. at least i know i dont have to worry about stupid shit like this ; )
Doesn't say how old you are, but your attitude will change when you're 35+ with a child, dead end job, and a husband that cares more about machismo than his own morals and personality.
Just don't come back here and complain how you were abused and regretted getting into a relationship with a wannabe "assertive" alpa male. Actually I kind of expect it to happen.
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you r not a mature woman u r a immature woman.
you also dont know what love is.
and dont know what a woman is.
a mature woman can be young and not a fully grown adult.
but you have to separate venting from what should be done
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I'm just here to observe.
Also can you actually try making some semblance of sense
LOL why is everyone saying this?
I think this is a good take. I am reading through a lot of male comments and its laughable. You know, Im not a nice guy at all, but holding the door open for a woman, pulling a chair out and treating her with respect is not a nice guy trait, its called courtesy.
OP Help me out a little. I have put girls in their place before when they're being bossy, annoying, bitchy. etc. The problem I find is this just makes the problem worse. Now they think of me as an asshole and they hold it over my head and tell all their friends about how I'm just a horrible guy, when the truth is I'm tired of the girl trying to make me into whoever she wants me to be.
If you want the perks of the nice guys then you gotta take the burdens too...
It's just like a guy dating a hot girl... it ain't all rainbows and sunshines..
If you ask for everything, you may end up with nothing.
If life gives you lemons..
So true. And well said.
But just like the girls who tell guys that height is not the most important thing in the world, or cock size, or whatever, the "nice" guys who desperately need to hear this and take it on board, won't. Because in their mind, there is nothing wrong with them. They are "nice". And that's just fine.
Back to the usual nice guy shaming, yet men get hated on for slut shaming and other shaming of women. Better to be a nice guy then any of those other things you get shamed for. Usual double standards with women, oh dear im gonna get hate for double standard shaming now.
you sad cow, you stole somebodies else pic.
In other words:
My only "humble" requirement is someone that comforts to my very strict and limited ideas and whims at any given moment.
And I just sit here and think, ok then, what are you good for?
Yeah, that's normal.
Unfortunately, our society and culture do a really really terrible job of taking nice young boys and turning them into nice, confident men. We basically tell them to stay as well behaved boys, while their asshole peers run off quickly and become shitty young men.
The 34 year old woman now decides she's going to give up on nice guys because all the good one's married someone else. Nicely done, lady, good luck. I can't wait till your new Take at 43.
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What the shit? This sounds like some little girl who wants some weak minded moron to get in some shitty drama filled relationship which is completely useless. And what do you think a relationship is? Fuck nice guys, fuck nice girls, throw that all out the window. What do you think a boyfriend/girlfriend honestly do? EVERY relationship is different, from person to person. Let me know what the hell you think an actual relationship does.
nice guy = ugly guy
And then they try to compensate shitty looks with being nice, which is very unattractive trait and this pushes them even dipper in the shit. Nice = feminine. Rude, cocky, jerk, dumbass, primitive ape etc = masculine. Now implement this, maybe it could work, maybe, still better than ugly looks + being nice, which is gay as fuck. But if you really want a solution that works, here it is: MONEY
i thought she wanted to be their girlfriend... but it sounds like she wants to be their boyfriend... im totally confused now. dafuq. at least i know i dont have to worry about stupid shit like this ; )
Doesn't say how old you are, but your attitude will change when you're 35+ with a child, dead end job, and a husband that cares more about machismo than his own morals and personality.
By the way, I'm a nice guy, but also an asshole.
That's the truth. Nice men are better off without crazy ones like this.
**READS TITLE***
YUP... some people gonna piss themselves reading this. Im just here to watch!
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OK, I got'cha ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)-b
Just don't come back here and complain how you were abused and regretted getting into a relationship with a wannabe "assertive" alpa male.
Actually I kind of expect it to happen.
you r not a mature woman u r a immature woman.
you also dont know what love is.
and dont know what a woman is.
a mature woman can be young and not a fully grown adult.
but you have to separate venting from what should be done
there's a lot more i could say but id waste time
People should just be lucky they find someone who loves them the same way back that's all that counts it's should not be treated like a sweet shop
Lmao I can see why gag featured this.
Touche gag.
I know that here are much of this articles but is this like 50% of the G@G because i say the feature.
Man bashing articles always get featured.
@bobbyxx then why don't you leave
Hell yes! Haha nice take. Why the hell shouldn't men be manly? And here's a secret... A lot of nice guys turn into manly men. Just takes time.