I agree with all except the last one. I had a girl do this to me, I thought she was actually busy, so I kept asking when I would have stopped if she had just told me she does not like me.
I was taught that saying "no thank you" is actually rude, because rejecting a person is not at all the same thing as turning down a cup of tea for example. It's actually kind of an odd response if you think about it.
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The usual "i have a boyriend" line works best in both making the message clear and preventing any decent guy from continuing.
I agree with all except the last one. I had a girl do this to me, I thought she was actually busy, so I kept asking when I would have stopped if she had just told me she does not like me.
Bad ideas!
The only way to properly reject is to say "No but thank you!"
I was taught that saying "no thank you" is actually rude, because rejecting a person is not at all the same thing as turning down a cup of tea for example. It's actually kind of an odd response if you think about it.
@samhradh_leannan The truth is, that it will depend from person to person.
If a girl were to be uninterested in me, I'd much rather have it quick and straight to the point rather than around it. I mean I prefer it that way.
Fair enough.
White lies are never ok
*oh I'm too busy for a relationship, I'm not ready"
3 days later her with a new boyfriend
You don't know how that feels. I don't know maybe because you're a girl, but lies like that are terrible
I hate when they pull that bullshit, then they wonder why i never talk to them again
What happens if the person doesn't take the rejection well and they start cussing you out?
... or you could just say "thank you, but i'm not interested."
The trick to rejecting women I found is to make them think its them rejecting you otherwise you may have a bunny boiler on your hands.
Do you know how many phone # I have that ended up just telling they are busy... FML
If she has a single friend, perhaps she should see if her friend would be interested.
I think if you reject him you should at least offer him a handjob? its the least you can do
prostitutes are most honest
there are a lot of people who needs that
ok cool