So you want to reject a guy nicely you say

[Anonymous]

So theirs a guy that's expressed his interest in you but you're just not interested and you want to reject him nicely, how do you do that?

Well there is NO way to reject guys nicely, and I speak on behalf of my gender, all guys are hard wired to take any rejection as being mean (Not nice) it's just the way it works.

Ignoring (Also not nice) us very rarely works because we don't get hints I myself am guilty of this and I don't get the hint every time, we think she's busy or forgotten to get back to us so we'll make several attempts to contact her which a lot of times just pisses her off but we don't know any better.

How do you reject him?

The honest approach works the best just say that you simply aren't interested and most of the time we'll thank her for her honesty and move on, if he simply can't understand that then he is psychotic and the police should be contacted, but very rarely do you meet one of those obsessive guys.

Thank you for reading and I hope you enjoyed this journey into the male mind.

[KittieCat]

How is there no nice way to reject someone? If I tell a guy who is interested I have a boyfriend so I'm not interest how is that rude? Lol it's being polite. At least I'm not saying "fuck yo ugly dumbo lookin ass I don't wanna be seen with you *hair flip*"

[Bluemax]

"all guys are hard wired to take any rejection as being mean"

We are? How is it I have never taken rejection as being "mean?"

[myTake Owner]

Rejections in itself aren't nice.

[Tdieseler]

... I don't see it. rejection stings either way or in either direction, if anything, ignoring is the mean one.

[Anonymous]

... say you have a boyfriend or are talking to someone and it's heading that way. That is what I always did. Bang! Done.

[katie_katx]

But one can try to reject them as clearly and sorry-ly as possible right? I kind of agree though