This topic is something I feel women will ALWAYS lie about saying they don't care, but they will immediately turn their head around for a buff guy with a shaped ass.
Also muscular guys ARE better in bed (don't even joke bro) sex isn't just about laying on your fat back while a chick rides you, as most virgin men like to think it is like.
Uhm, it's not the dream pillow, dream pillow is softer. A little muscle, but not all that much is necessary. Sorry if you find chest hair nonappealing, but the picture below shows the perfect ratio between fat and muscle. A little bigger arms are the only adjustment to perfection.
attitude like that is what scares them away, of course girls like good looking men but they also look for guys that respect them and listen to them, if you got muscles but are a total idiot then you would be attracting them until they get to know you, i have muscles but not to the point where i look like a shiny balloon, im doing just fine, info is doodoo buddy, dont fill insecured men with false facts 😂
It's a biological imperative... dating from way back in the cave man days, where she chose best suitor to protect her and her offspring from sabertooth tiger and roaming tribesmen. They just like tall and strong guys. It comforts their lizard-brain.
I go to the gym every day, and though a muscular body is nice, it's not mandatory AT ALL. What matters is whether we share the same interests, and whether he likes me for who I am or not.
I don't think you can state things like that without even being a woman lol.
PS : My two long relationships were with skinny guys who never lifted a weight in their life...
Personally, I prefer a guy doesn't have a lot of muscle; not every girl likes the same exact thing. No, I'm not saying this to avoid sounding shallow, I like some toning and a lean build which shows he takes care of himself, the guy in the first photo is way too muscular for my taste.
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A lot of girls don't care about muscles on guys. I mean yeah its a nice added bonus but its not necessary. You might have some body image issues? its okay to be skinny its okay to be chubby, not everyone fancies a muscular guy, everyone has different tastes.
Girls don't *only* like muscular guys, but it does help. That said, the last point is dead wrong: just because you're fit doesn't mean you know shit what to do in bed. If anything, you might try less because you think it might slide compared to less classically appealing guys who are aware of this fact and try harder to please a woman...
I know exactly what you mean. This is precisely why I stopped dating chicks I met at the gym. Nice bodies, but I swear they knew nothing about making love.
They don't, only SOME do. I have been rejected plenty of times, once from a woman for another woman... that was fun, but it has never bothered me! The way I see it is, if you let somebody get so into your head that the simple fact that they just aren't interested in you helps to make you a jaded person then you really weren't that mentally strong to beging with
I've never been a fan of guys who are really muscular. As long as they are in shape, then its okay with me. I notice that my previous exes were on the skinny sid and thats okay too.
That's not true at all I know that there are girls who are attracted to tall and muscular men in fact I got rejected once by a girl because I wasn't muscular. That doesn't mean all or even most girls are like that I know plenty of skinny dudes that get girls and plenty of girls that aren't attracted to muscular guys.
I say I like muscular guys but in reality the guys I had liked were borderline malnutritioned or short or whatever. And I did very much find them attractive.
Well, I'm more skinny than muscular, yet I have no trouble dating women. I think that word "only" from the title is not appropriate. Nothing wrong with being muscular, because there's a lot of effort and commitment to achieve that, but I think there's no way that's going to help you if you have an ugly character.
Simple: they DON'T. Get over yourself and get a life, little man.
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lol I love house you said that muscles don't matter and then you go on and call me "little man". How mature of you. You just also contradicted yourself.
But I do agree that some muscles WILL get you more attention and possibly more luck with dating... but to say ONLY? That’s bs. We do nit like OnLY it’s with muscular bodies. Don’t be ridiculous.
Are muscles attractive? Certainly, absolutely, no denying that. Is it necessary? Absolutely not. Is it the most important thing? Abso fucking lutely not.
Are muscles hot? Hell yes. Are they the only hot thing? Hell no.
strong conclusion, Einstein. Have you ever thought about your face? Or about how much more matches would you have if you would have athletic body? Oh wait, you're tall too...
yeah, these uggo gymcels are deluded lol face >>> status (both tied in first) >>> height >>> body/muscles. And no, "personality" doesn't matter. What women calls "personality" is actually status and is already a sub-product of looks.
Not true, I've seen fat guys get the hot chick over muscular guys because at the end of the day obliques look nice but a fat wallet and a good job looks nicer.
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Yeah a fat wallet looks nice until she cheats on you with the musclar handsome guy
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This topic is something I feel women will ALWAYS lie about saying they don't care, but they will immediately turn their head around for a buff guy with a shaped ass.
Also muscular guys ARE better in bed (don't even joke bro) sex isn't just about laying on your fat back while a chick rides you, as most virgin men like to think it is like.
Exactly. Thank you
none is saying that women doesn't like muscles, dude. it's just that it isn't mandatory. It's all about face, height and status. body comes last.
Uhm, it's not the dream pillow, dream pillow is softer. A little muscle, but not all that much is necessary. Sorry if you find chest hair nonappealing, but the picture below shows the perfect ratio between fat and muscle. A little bigger arms are the only adjustment to perfection.
attitude like that is what scares them away, of course girls like good looking men but they also look for guys that respect them and listen to them, if you got muscles but are a total idiot then you would be attracting them until they get to know you, i have muscles but not to the point where i look like a shiny balloon, im doing just fine, info is doodoo buddy, dont fill insecured men with false facts 😂
It's a biological imperative... dating from way back in the cave man days, where she chose best suitor to protect her and her offspring from sabertooth tiger and roaming tribesmen.
They just like tall and strong guys. It comforts their lizard-brain.
darn those lizard people!
@Spawnface - It's funny, if you ask them why they feel this way they can't tell you. "It just feels right." It is ALWAYS about the FEELZ. ;)
I think because it's tactical foolishness to actually speak your reasons when you don't have any. Feelz are like the ultimate scape goat.
@Spawnface But that's all women have. And they are subject to change at any given moment. Just ask them!
I don't really get what you mean with that last part
@Spawnface - The FEELZ. That's what women operate on - their feelings. And they are subject to change how they feel depending on how they feel. LOL
Oh! Right, ya. Perfect scape goat. "Dont hurt my feelz!" (Sweeps reason under the rug)
Then immediately after "YOUR NOT BEING REASONABLE!" (again playing the "you are hurting my feelz" card)
I meant immediately after changes to the opposite position
... No.
I go to the gym every day, and though a muscular body is nice, it's not mandatory AT ALL. What matters is whether we share the same interests, and whether he likes me for who I am or not.
I don't think you can state things like that without even being a woman lol.
PS : My two long relationships were with skinny guys who never lifted a weight in their life...
yeah, but what about your short relationships? that's the key here.
Personally, I prefer a guy doesn't have a lot of muscle; not every girl likes the same exact thing. No, I'm not saying this to avoid sounding shallow, I like some toning and a lean build which shows he takes care of himself, the guy in the first photo is way too muscular for my taste.
A lot of girls don't care about muscles on guys. I mean yeah its a nice added bonus but its not necessary. You might have some body image issues?
its okay to be skinny its okay to be chubby, not everyone fancies a muscular guy, everyone has different tastes.
Girls don't *only* like muscular guys, but it does help. That said, the last point is dead wrong: just because you're fit doesn't mean you know shit what to do in bed. If anything, you might try less because you think it might slide compared to less classically appealing guys who are aware of this fact and try harder to please a woman...
I know exactly what you mean. This is precisely why I stopped dating chicks I met at the gym. Nice bodies, but I swear they knew nothing about making love.
They don't, only SOME do. I have been rejected plenty of times, once from a woman for another woman... that was fun, but it has never bothered me! The way I see it is, if you let somebody get so into your head that the simple fact that they just aren't interested in you helps to make you a jaded person then you really weren't that mentally strong to beging with
I've never been a fan of guys who are really muscular. As long as they are in shape, then its okay with me. I notice that my previous exes were on the skinny sid and thats okay too.
That's not true at all I know that there are girls who are attracted to tall and muscular men in fact I got rejected once by a girl because I wasn't muscular. That doesn't mean all or even most girls are like that I know plenty of skinny dudes that get girls and plenty of girls that aren't attracted to muscular guys.
I say I like muscular guys but in reality the guys I had liked were borderline malnutritioned or short or whatever. And I did very much find them attractive.
Guys that are very muscular/bulky is actually unattractive to me and not my type at all.
Well, I'm more skinny than muscular, yet I have no trouble dating women. I think that word "only" from the title is not appropriate. Nothing wrong with being muscular, because there's a lot of effort and commitment to achieve that, but I think there's no way that's going to help you if you have an ugly character.
It'll defiantly kick the door open.
Actually, lots of muscular guys are bad in bed because of steroids. But yeah, you're right. No doubt.
And yes, not everyone chooses this life just to get girls, some guys just love doing this <3
I know that but it helps if you are musclar.
Of course!
Simple: they DON'T.
Get over yourself and get a life, little man.
lol I love house you said that muscles don't matter and then you go on and call me "little man". How mature of you. You just also contradicted yourself.
ONLY? 😂 bs! Not ONLY!
But I do agree that some muscles WILL get you more attention and possibly more luck with dating... but to say ONLY? That’s bs. We do nit like OnLY it’s with muscular bodies. Don’t be ridiculous.
Are muscles attractive? Certainly, absolutely, no denying that. Is it necessary? Absolutely not. Is it the most important thing? Abso fucking lutely not.
Are muscles hot? Hell yes. Are they the only hot thing? Hell no.
I disagree with this - I am a tall skinny nerdy fucker and I collected 500 matches on Tinder over 6 months
Depends on the woman but most look at a lot more than just the size of one's biceps
Most want a guy with big biceps. They are lying if they don't.
I agree - but they also want a lot more than that
strong conclusion, Einstein. Have you ever thought about your face? Or about how much more matches would you have if you would have athletic body? Oh wait, you're tall too...
yeah, these uggo gymcels are deluded lol
face >>> status (both tied in first) >>> height >>> body/muscles. And no, "personality" doesn't matter. What women calls "personality" is actually status and is already a sub-product of looks.
Not true, I've seen fat guys get the hot chick over muscular guys because at the end of the day obliques look nice but a fat wallet and a good job looks nicer.
Yeah a fat wallet looks nice until she cheats on you with the musclar handsome guy
Still got dat money.