Chico_Brah's Basic Dating Tips for Young Men (Part 1) (Page 3)

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[Anonymous]

So, you get laid solely on your physique cause it's not your personality obviously.

[Chico_brah]

What makes you say that?

[backtoblackkkk]

Haha love this!

[cheekyLILjig]

but he's wrong XD

[Chico_brah]

@cheekyLILjig oh yeah? What part is wrong?

[Impregnator511]

Of course this is all common sense. A few of us just needed reminding.

[uglylooksmaxxer]

what a waste of a thread. If ur young, get the surgeries to fix ur face. Thats the only dating tip u need as a man.

[Bleepasaurus_RexEwww]

Lmfao but what if I want to be on a pedestal?

[Chico_brah]

Then you'll attract plenty of guys on this website that will bend over backward for you lol.

[Bleepasaurus_RexEwww]

Lmao I was kidding... Jesus that's a lot of downvotes. Guys that will bend over? Bahahaha Gay!😏😂

[TheUsername27]

Because there are girls on here who actually think what you just wrote. I mean one girl above said she enjoyed her pedestal (as an example of this).

[spnsfi]

I'll bend over forwards for you ale

[Bleepasaurus_RexEwww]

@spnsfi good to know

[Bleepasaurus_RexEwww]

@TheUsername27 I know

[Anonymous]

Wait so if I am on a date with a girl, I shouldn't open the door for her and instead go in first?

[Anonymous]

This is all wrong.

You have to be bad, muscular, abusive and have six pack abs cause "omagerd bad boys have confidence hurr durr".

[Chico_brah]

Care to elaborate more?

[Opinion Owner]

Women say that being nice is bad and a sign of weakness and being a bad boy makes you confident and that you cannot get laid unless you have six pack abs and are muscular.

And women find politeness creepy and abusive and degrading language "attractive".

Basically women are hardwired to go for the negative rather than positive

[Chico_brah]

You're one of those men who think within radical mindset. You have to break free of that sort of thought for you're seriously hindering all chances of being successful with women because of this.

I understand there are differences between men and women, but I also understand there is no generic personality of all women. Take your friends for example... Are all of your friends the same? No, most likely not. That's because we all have different values and our values are accumulated through our life experiences. They differentiate from one another by that logic. Human beings, including women, are very multi-dimensional within their personalities and values. They're all different.

It sounds like you read a lot of things online when you should actually just go experience women yourself. I say this not to be a dick, but if you actually knew women in IRL, then you wouldn't be saying the things that you are.

[Chico_brah]

Certain traits in a male are attractive and unattractive in what you mentioned. The issue arises is when you use that knowledge you read on the internet and automatically presume that to be the determining factor of your judgment towards women. Consider those tips you read online, but at the same time go experience women for yourself in real life. What's a better source? The obvious answer is real life experience. The best solution is a mixture of advice and application of that advice. Try what I said and you'll have a lot more success than you think.

[Chico_brah]

I mean you're saying everything I said is wrong but my thoughts on this take have been tested through trial and error through real life application. I've made mistakes but this is ultimately my conclusion and I think I have a decent amount of experience with a woman in comparison to most guys my age. My experience sort of transcends things you read on the internet for real life experience is a better source.

[Opinion Owner]

Good for you cholo brah.

[Chico_brah]

Did you digest anything I just said? Feel like that was a complete waste of my keystrokes lmao

[Opinion Owner]

Yeah I read what you said. I agreed and moved on.

[Xoxoxooo123]

great advice!

[Anonymous]

*Like*

[Anonymous]

Is chico_brah a fearless banana?

[Chico_brah]

Yep.

[Anonymous]

Pink anon also needs dating advice!

[Chico_brah]

The best advice I could probably give you is to send noodz via DM.

[Opinion Owner]

:'( ☔

[Chico_brah]

🤤🤤

[Opinion Owner]

💩 💩

[Chico_brah]

Are you flirting with me pink anon? Sort of lost tbh

[FakeName123]

Quite frankly. It is a lot more difficult to give advice to a woman, because you are in a doomed if you do, doomed if you don't situation.

When you approach, a lot of guys will either feel threatened by it or find it a turn-off, because they want to be the active part. When you don't approach, nowadays you gonna wait until turning skeleton.

Your best bet is to be approachable. Smile, eye-contact, open body-language, stand alone at times so you can be approached without a mob of friends around you and judging every guy who gets close - including the deathstare. And to look at your social circle.

Also the way you dress is important. Just like you dress formally when going to a job interview - it also makes a difference how you dress if you get into the "wanna smash" and "wanna relationship" category.

[Opinion Owner]

@FakeName123 My, my! Didn't expect to be taken seriously in Chico_brah's thread but I'm happy to see your reply. I think we can benefit from that advice. Thanks! <3

[FakeName123]

You asked for dating advice, so I gave a quick answer. Feel free to ask in more detail though

[Anonymous]

good tips

[MakingMeHiiiigh]

Nailed it cunt

[player0696]

Nice tips brother

[Anonymous]

lol hahahaha
yeah whatever

[Chico_brah]

Care to elaborate?

[Opinion Owner]

no I know how this world works and the people
everything you just said is a lie

and there thats enough bye

[Chico_brah]

So you're referring to this being based upon deception? How did you come to that conclusion? Are you suggesting that this is not how the world of dating works? If so, please explain to me why.

[Opinion Owner]

simple you look good or decent and you will be fine
if you are ugly better have something to offer the bitch
kinda like money lol

[Chico_brah]

So what you're saying is that the only determining factor in regards to dating is looks? Looks evidently hold a lot of value in the dating world. Having said that, looks can only get you so far. They get you in the door. After that, it's about the connection and vibe that you feel with that other person. I know plenty of friends in the bodybuilding world who look great and still can't get a girl for the life of them. Are you invalidating my experience in attempt to solidify your claims? If so, please articulate why your claim deserves justification on that note while mine does not.

[Opinion Owner]

really look around lol
everyone is stupid and repeats exactly what im telling you

I dont even need to prove myself just go online bunch of cocky bitches
and a section of guys that will talk to any cute girl that comes there way

its called pre-programming

[Chico_brah]

Yes I recognize that it's a variable. Can you follow up with the rest of what I've said?

[Opinion Owner]

no im not gonna show you

you already know the truth
deal with it the world is not a nice place

[Chico_brah]

Okay then lol.

[Anonymous]

Thanks bruh