I find it unfortunate you are comparing breaking up with someone with "To reply to text or not reply to text, that is the question!"
I don't have any obligations to read or reply to any texts and when I'm busy with something I won't be reading these things for a while. Naturally, you have the same rights.
I like M. Angelou's take on such problems, in general. "If you don't like something, then change it. If you can't change it, then change your attitude."
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Sorry... I still think ghosting is intentional and generally a chicken shit way of dealing with things... There are many, many people who have healthy dating lives (with the same problems you mentioned) without using ghosting as response... Perhaps, the real issue is a lack of wisdom of not seeing signs in the beginning.
If you wanna ghost a "friend" or an acquaintance, that's one thing. Ghosting someone you're in a relationship with is pretty shitty in my opinion even if it's only been a couple months.
If someone's ghosting you either you had a fight and the person needs space or the person can't stand you. If your in a position after 3 months of dating where you don't speak everyday or two them your relationship is cold and doomed.
It causes men to be less invested in potential relationships when more and more women ghost them. It eventually leads to damage women in the long term, this is why ghosting is seen as a bad thing generally.
Then ghosting means more than one thing. Ghosting to me means when someone calls and makes a appointment they never intended to keep. That style of ghosting should be illegal.
Ghosting appoints does a few things, it cost businesses in both in time, money, customers, and it cost real clients a lot of times by forcing them to go out of their way to get the same service. On the other hand what does cheating cost you? Your own time by making poor choices? Get real.
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I find it unfortunate you are comparing breaking up with someone with "To reply to text or not reply to text, that is the question!"
I don't have any obligations to read or reply to any texts and when I'm busy with something I won't be reading these things for a while. Naturally, you have the same rights.
I like M. Angelou's take on such problems, in general.
"If you don't like something, then change it. If you can't change it, then change your attitude."
Sorry... I still think ghosting is intentional and generally a chicken shit way of dealing with things... There are many, many people who have healthy dating lives (with the same problems you mentioned) without using ghosting as response... Perhaps, the real issue is a lack of wisdom of not seeing signs in the beginning.
If the only person you care about and want to protect is yourself, you have no honor.
Which is fine, you are in the super-majority there. And I'm sure you'll find an equally craven scoundrel to settle down with eventually.
If you wanna ghost a "friend" or an acquaintance, that's one thing. Ghosting someone you're in a relationship with is pretty shitty in my opinion even if it's only been a couple months.
If someone's ghosting you either you had a fight and the person needs space or the person can't stand you. If your in a position after 3 months of dating where you don't speak everyday or two them your relationship is cold and doomed.
It causes men to be less invested in potential relationships when more and more women ghost them. It eventually leads to damage women in the long term, this is why ghosting is seen as a bad thing generally.
I remember when a dude ghosted on me, but I was on some crazy shit back then. I'm a little more crazy now.
Ghosting is immature just block and make ur intentions clear
If you're not in a relationship with someone, you don't owe them an explanation. Ghost all you want.
I did it, because she was a wack job.
Then ghosting means more than one thing. Ghosting to me means when someone calls and makes a appointment they never intended to keep. That style of ghosting should be illegal.
Then so should cheating.
Ghosting appoints does a few things, it cost businesses in both in time, money, customers, and it cost real clients a lot of times by forcing them to go out of their way to get the same service. On the other hand what does cheating cost you? Your own time by making poor choices? Get real.
fucking ghosts, they never leave us alone
the only time I think its ok its when you think they are cheating on you. by the way I hate cheaters
ghosting is a tactic used by pussies.
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Ghosting is fine
It's a good idea