There are many insightful comments from women on this site. Well, there are some insightful comments anyway. But, there is also A LOT of trash. And, I feel I owe to the men as well as the good advice givers to point out these flaws. Now, obviously these bad advice givers don't actually care about other people's lives or problems and that's mainly the problem. But, in case they do and are just unaware of the problems, here's for you too!
1) Answering with the authority of the group
My biggest pet peeve on here is when girls respond "it's 50/50" "it's not what you think" "it's this" "it's that" YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT ANYTHING IS you're JUST ONE PERSON. The only time you can honestly give a fact is when someones is asking you for an answer not an opinion. If I say, how many hours do you work out at the gym per day you can say a fact (but then oddly thats when many girls choose to give an opinion.) But if I say i have this problem with x...you can say what it is as fact. I think a lot of this is because women are severely underpowered and underrepresented in the real world and so many come on here looking for a voice and take it too far. That's the sympathetic view of what causes this anyway...
2) Answering without any logic at all
This is simple. You don't need to be overly logical but it shouldn't be all emotional.
3) Reacting to logical questions about their comments as though it were personal
When we guys point out logical inconsistencies in your argument you don't need to treat us like schoolyard bullies. We're asking questions to make your argument stronger. Instead, you say some jerk comment to us to make yourselves feel better. Stop being so defensive.
4) Being outlandish for the sake of being outlandish
Some of the opinions I get from females are downright attention seeking and designed to push someone's buttons. No human who's ever socialized even once in his or her life would be that outlandish and uncalibrated socially to say something like that...
5) Giving opinions on subjects they couldn't possibly know from firsthand experience as though they have had it...
This includes but is not limited to:
- how penetrative sex feels despite having in other places on the site saying that they are virgins
-saying what marriage feels like despite being sixteen years old (in the US)
-knowing how all guys think despite not being all guys and not even being a guy at all
Oh, and if you want a really great example of AMAZING female advice check this book out:
...I push you women to be better because I love you...