Reasons Why Bad Boys Are so Irresistible to Good Girls (Page 2)
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I always tell myself i need to date a bad boy at some point in my life. Not an asshole though, i mean the kind of guy who isn't afraid to get into trouble and lives life a bit more carelessly, yet is still a good person and doesn't go punching random people or something. A good bad boy, not a jackass!
jesus christ... there are ugly fat bad boys just like there are "hot nerd" guys it's not a john hughes movie where all bad boys are played by a brooding dark haired strong jawed model but those are the ones that are attractive to girls and i wonder if anyone ever considers... maybe its cuz theyre attractive and not because they're bad?
I am a good girl. NEver even made out with a guy and I always attract these bad boys! They are bad news. They take advantage of my kindness and have played me. They have other women on the side. Deep down, I am attracted to a guy with a pure soul. I met one once but I regret not getting his number on a night out! Those type of men are rare... All men sleep around nowadays but when you find a good one you will know...
Thank you for your opinion! I'm sorry that they took advantage of your kindness, but I think that's what's going to happen to my friend.
I would say yes.. because we women like to be controlled and guided by a guy.
1, being with a tough man means you will be safe.
2. They know what you want
3. they're honest
4. it is impossible for them to like you and if they do girls will fall for them fast
5. they know how to flirt and are good kissers, etc
That's okay, I find you "good girls" to be boring as well :] Naughty, confident women who aren't afraid to dominate a man are where it's at.
More fun in bed
those aren't bad boys in those pictures. their faggots who think their bad boys. these are a real bad boys.
hahahahahaha this is the best response ever
lmao
@interstellar where's Elliot rodger the ultimate gentleman bad boy? Jk jk
I don't think you actually understand why u're attracted to "bad boys". I don't claim I do either, but from my own experience it's 90% down to pure physical appearance + confidence, and 10% to girl's pure horniness, believing that the "bad" guy would more easily get around, i. e. trick their shyness and let them experience intimacy they are longing for. And that's also why girls who are confident and with truly integrated personality usually don't fall for bad boys.
Like I said, I don't know why you guys are assuming, but this is not about me, and who I am attracted to.
Yep. Just wait till that bad boy beats the shit out of you one day and soon you will learn to love him even more. Stupid women.
Like I said, not me. I'm trying to help my friend to steer clear of this path.
Most of this is just the image surrounding them as opposed to who they are as people.
Personally, I have a hard time respecting girls who see things through labels as opposed to their own eyes. So they can have you.
EDIT: "you" = girls like your friend.
Could you elaborate on "girls who see things through labels as opposed to their own eyes"?
Prime example, the "bad boy" image. When they see a guy like that, they don't see an individual. They only see the cookie-cutter archetype that society told them to associate with such a guy, and the fiery "happily ever after" love story that was drilled into their heads in conjunction.
Instead of taking some time to analyze that SPECIFIC guy for themselves, they choose to let Vamp Diary daydreams set their expectations for what's gonna happen while ignoring that the guy in front of them might only loosely fit said expectations.
It demonstrates a crippling lack of practical intellect and self-awareness.
Not necessarily, but I see your point.
... and this is why I don't feel any sympathy for any woman that ended up getting their hearts broken by a sociopath or whatever. It was their choice.
Very well said!
Same here actually. It really was their choice. There is nothing else to be said.
True lol. When i hear stories about girls who injured physical abuse for years... im like... why didn't you leave as soon as he hit you? I have no sympathy... honestly cracks me up sometimes.
https://i.imgur.com/rZSb4D8.jpg
@Unit1 haha :D
they look more like fuckboys to me
this is a bad boy
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Article's title should be "reasons why bad boys are so irresistible to sluts". Good girls don't make poor choices.
Actually, they do, but you wouldn't know.
Then they are not good girls. Good doesn't just mean that you are a good person with good intentions or whatever. Good also means smart, someone who has long term vision and knows what they want not just trying to fuck any hot thing that comes by. Then again you are 15 so you will probably figure it out by the time you are 30 give or take.
Just because people are young, you shouldn't just assume that they are immature.
Age is a major factor in all of this. Keep going fornthe bad boys, its change the fact you aren't good enough for the nice guys you trample over. Do men I. The future a huge favor and never go for nice guys when you all old and used up. Nobody wants to deal with the range you do to yourself, no nice guy derserves used up and damaged goods.
You know why girls go after the "bad boys" and not the "nice guys"?
Because the bad boys aren't actually bad and the nice guys aren't genuinely nice people. I go after "bad boys" because they are interesting, confident, charming, and have a lot more to offer other than basic human decency.
Another dumb take on trying to romanticize something really dumb, I've seen these"bad boys" in real life and its never how people write them in their takes, "so cool, mysterious" its almost always a dumb gangster guy that just picks fights with other dudes and all he does with his girl is argue.
The fact that you don't even have the courage to put your name out there makes your opinion almost worthless.
Thanks the fact that you replied doesn't make it ad worrhless as you claim
doesn't make it as worthless**
Sorry, I can't stand idiocy.
When the current bad boy you are with is tired of you, he will move on to the next girl who is younger and prettier than you.
When that happens and you hit a certain age where you ask " where have all the good men gone?" Then dont bother. No good man wants to be with a wrecked clunker with a lot of mileage. Don't ruin his life with your jaded expectations of him and your outlandish comparisons between him and your former so called lovers.
@stevemeh the girl is 15 I wouldn't recommend arguing with her at this point. She's at the epitome of wanting to get used like that
Actually, if any of you read, I am not dating or hooking up with a "bad boy". I'm trying to see why the other girls at school are attracted to them, especially one of my close friends.
You probably aren't a good girl if you like those types of guys. Seriously... ''good girls'' i know in person date dweebs.
And bad dudes where i live are the ugliest. I mean shit... look at gang members/chavs.. The handsome bad dudes, which are quite rare, are just players.
Depends on the bad boy you totally regret dating one if years as went by and he sends you harassing messages from time to time that doesn't make him hot or attractive.
Yet when the bad boy fuck you and then leave you, whose shoulder are you going to cry on?
Yep, the "boring" nice guy you ditched for the bad one, but you remember when you're sad because johnny the bad guy used you as a cum deposit.
I just love the thought of being choked the fuck out because he's mad at the weather today, so romantic.
Great take.
Im sorry for you that you need to handle kids who can't appreciate an objective myTake.
Thank you.
@r4ngeF
Agreed. It's not that big a deal. I don't know why so many guys are gettin' their panties in a bunch about it.
@Anon-ymous1
3 downvotes. I feel like a bad boy.