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Christ, way to totally miss the point.
The issue is one of trust, being deceptive and treating other humans with respect. If you want to go and shag someone else, that's totally fine, but do it in an upfront non-monogamous relationship, and be clear with your fucking partner about it beforehand. Jeez.
You are totally right, my bad I forgot about this in the take
I disagree with everything you wrote here.
The point is, you don't believe is monogamy or exclusive relationships at all, so you should be clear with your partners and tell them you don't believe in monogamy, and they won't get faithfulness from you.
Just as long as you make sure to not be a cuckhold!
Sometimes guys like to think they "let" a girl cheat, but really, they do not have a say in whether or not a girl cheats. They think that girl is the only woman who will have sex with them, and maybe she is. However, the guy should move on, or he will lose his masculinity entirely. He might as well watch, at that point, or join his girlfriend in making love to the other man.
Cheating is never okay, EVER. It's how you can get diseases and pass them on, plus being faithful is a lot nicer.. cheating hurts several people. Unless of course, someone doesn't care
You didn't say why in your opinion cheating isn't a terrible thing. You said a lot of things, I don't remember reading why you concluded cheating isn't completely terrible. Will you let me know please?
Another mistake from me that nobody noticed except for you. Everyone here must think I am justifying cheating and saying it i indeed a good thing to do :)
I am talking about why cheating shouldn't be terrible as it is in our eyes (somebody even kills for such things), why our attitude towards is not mostly objective and conscious
I feel the opposite of you then, it's one of the most disrespectful acts of thoughtlessness in my opinion. If a guy I put my trust in did that there's no coming back from it. How could anyone trust a cheater ever again? Trust is the first thing that goes when it happens, and the last thing to come back if it ever does. My one serious relationship that just ended bc he was getting too possessive, looking back I knew he was jealous when I would talk to a guy, I watched as him being jealous of other guys with me was getting worse, I thought he would get past that I even told myself it was me not thinking clearly. Sorry I really took it somewhere else, didn't mean to. The point I was trying to make was we, my boyfriend & I had an agreement that if one either feel out of love or had a strong desire to see other people we would be honest with each other and tell them, we did that bc we both felt being cheated on was pretty high up on the ultimate disrespect list.
"it's one of the most disrespectful acts of thoughtlessness" add Selfishness. and you have the perfect sentence
Don't write funny stuff to incite rage in people lol. Everyone is going to assume you're a virgin or some loser cuck. But I dunno man, maybe go cheat first or go get cheated on before you write this?
Too many points to cover, I cbf responding. So have fun living with this philosophy. Everyone should just congratulate him. Don't change his view, i wanna see how things turn out lol.
Sorry but your incoherent ramblings never really shed light on your assertion that cheating is not a bad thing. It might help if you defined cheating as you see it. “Attention” as you say, is not.
Nope. I'd end it right there after getting cheated on. No forgiveness. I don't give a shit how long we've been together, what the circumstances are, etc. She had one job and she fucked it up.
You are so right my friend, he's just trying to justify a wrong he can't make right No matter what color he paints it, it still stinks like shit, it doesn't matter what bag you put it in. If you are planing to cheat, well by God , let your wife have a good time too, you want a little a pussy, well let your wife or S. O. get some pecker to please her and let her have the ultimate orgasm, maybe you haven't been all that in bed the past 6 months. So go to a swingers club or find a couple whos ready for tango. Let's see how your ego feels!! If it's good for you, it's great for. her. Now what about egos? Lol
Couples who are madly in love and committed to each other don't cheat. Period.
People cheat for a lot of reasons - I've been on both sides of this - it's most usually from something missing in their primary relationship. Sometimes it kills the primary, sometimes it strengthens it. Couples do survive infidelity.
Humans are built to be monogamous dude, this is supported by biologists, psychologists and sociologist...
Cheating is never healthy and neither are open relationships. Ask Will Smith is open relationships work if you don't believe me.
You are right, but humans also are violent, mean, cocky and everything because they needed to survive. Can we justify a person for being mean just because our nature gave us this? It is supported by biologists, psychologists and sociologists
And by the way I AM NOT saying cheating is healthy, i am saying our attitude towards it is not
But if cheating is unhealthy and our view is that cheating is bad because it is unhealthy, then how is our view unhealthy? It is in alignment with what we already established to be an unwanted negative.
A long time ago I cheated on my girlfriend to break up with her, partly cause I was too chicken shit to be honest, and I was severely psychologically disturbed at the time. Anyway I felt bad, and have been making it up to the girl for the past 12 years. And we can still be friends.
yeah man cheat. whats wrong even your girl cheats. even her boyfrnd cheats and also the girl with whom you fucking , must have been cheating his boyfrind who is acatully fucking your girlfriend...
better do one thing.. bring all these cheaters to one place and start a family orgy.
Cheating is a terrible thing because ot os cheating.
If you made a lifeling promise to stay loyal to one person, then you should never break it.
If you cannot do that, then dont do it , simple as that.
In your case, you should obviosuly notmake such a commitment.
Hence, your take is invalid
I've said this before. I'll say it again.
CHEATING IS ONE OF THE MOST HEINOUS CRIMES A HUMAN BEING CAN COMMIT. It's just unfortunate that they haven't made that illegal yet.
there is no issue if you want to have sex or a relationship with someone else but for the well being of other people don't take advantage of both worlds and just break up instead or already state a more open kind of relationship where you already mention you will have fun with more people
this person is a cuckold or has been cheated on and is trying to justify it. cheating is wrong period
Selfish people will always look for an excuse to justify their bad behavior.
You might want to see a psychiatrist bud. Honestly I think you might be a sociopath :/
Yes, listen up kids.
When someone displays utter lack of personal integrity and acts out of their pure selfish interest...
It is, uhh... a problem with your ego, not theirs!
I understood that we should leave the childish behavior?
by the way was laughing about want everything from you, you are mine and no one else's, YOU ARE MY TOY"
Thats freak and funny MY TOY 😂😂😂
How is it freak and funny?
@MysteriousDarkness the way she said it MY TOY
@someone1997 What do you mean by freak and funny