It’s still unjustifiable, you can’t make a right with two wrongs. She shoud’ve left him in the first place before cheating, and besides this story should probably be taken cum grano salis without both sides
Cheaters are traitors and that makes them terrible. If they're in such a bad relationship they should leave rather than betray. Cheaters really just hurt people around them for selfish reasons.
I agree with the fact that the way he behaved is worse than being a one-time cheater, but your actions aren't justified just because someone else did something worse.
He didn't push her into another man's arms - she should have the guts to walk away from him if he was that bad, instead of trying to justify her impulses.
Same here, kick them to the curb. When I found out she was cheating on me (with her dog trainer) I loaded up my car and box trailer with all her stuff including her dog while she was at work and stacked it in her moms back yard. Unfortunately I did miss that dog, dogs are trustworthy!
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I hope for her that pretending that he is only horrible person in this story, will help her sleep at night.
That's why you should never cheat.. it makes the other person look good in comparison.
It’s still unjustifiable, you can’t make a right with two wrongs. She shoud’ve left him in the first place before cheating, and besides this story should probably be taken cum grano salis without both sides
2 wrongs don’t make a right. Her stupidity in staying does not excuse her choice to cheat.
I’ve known too many people ignore constant wanting, advice and offers of help to have any sympathy for people that stay in toxic relationships
Leave me if im not perfect. Dont stick your penis into someone else and then come back to me
You said it well!
Cheaters are traitors and that makes them terrible. If they're in such a bad relationship they should leave rather than betray. Cheaters really just hurt people around them for selfish reasons.
Tom is a garbage human being, what a jerk. I wish a fool would make my daughter cry, and see what it gets him. Where were her parents?
I agree with the fact that the way he behaved is worse than being a one-time cheater, but your actions aren't justified just because someone else did something worse.
He didn't push her into another man's arms - she should have the guts to walk away from him if he was that bad, instead of trying to justify her impulses.
I did give my cheaters a break and quiet a long one actually. It's been 32 years since I broke up with the last one. They took a never ending break.
Same here, kick them to the curb.
When I found out she was cheating on me (with her dog trainer) I loaded up my car and box trailer with all her stuff including her dog while she was at work and stacked it in her moms back yard. Unfortunately I did miss that dog, dogs are trustworthy!
@steevo I left mine at work waiting for me to pick her up in the freezing cold. I never showed up.
LOL. 'Revenge is best served cold' comes to mind.
@steevo Oh absolutely it was too! :D
Never take a cheater back
If you take them back, you're saying "OK, you can lie to me, and be rewarded for it". That's not cool. That's something Trump would do
This is shitty mental gynastics to make excuses for narcissism. Anyone that cheats instead of breaking up is a terrible person.
If she was unhappy, she should have broken up with that guy first, and THEN go find someone else. It's still a lack of respect.
Yeay she was right to cheat on him because leaving him wasn't an option. Girl power!!!
She was obviously paying the bills, including the rent. She could have changed the locks and kicked him out onto the street.
They're both assholes in my eyes. She should have ended the relationship and found someone else instead of waiting with ending it until she did.
Cheating is always wrong. She should have just left him. If he's that unhinged, it's suprising he didn't batter her. Many men would have,
I did give them a break and got fucked over so no thankyou
This is a really good read
Written by a god damn cheater. Get lost.
No your take is garbage