Nowadays I see that guys call a girl who feels she wants certain things in a guy as some type of superficial bitch. I understand sometimes certain people's lists can be a little much. An example of too much in my opinion is when someone says they want their significant other to have a car when they themselves don't even know how to drive or own any mode of vehicle other than uber.
The way I see it is that if you have a requirement you want somebody to have then you should also have that quality in some way. So here's my list:
1. Personal hygiene
I seriously can't deal with a guy who doesn't brush his teeth, take regular showers and basically just lives like an 80's grunge rocker.
Here's the thing I'm a double major student, studying film and television production as well as investment analysis and portfolio management. So like I need someone who I can talk to who would be able to understand what I'm going through. Let me further explain why for me this is an actual thing NOW... I emphasise NOW because it was actually never a thing for me before but is now. I have a friend who dropped out of university in the first week to get married and she's now a housewife (admiration for housewives, those women are strong af) so whenever I see her nowadays we honestly have nothing to talk about because her priorities and interests are so different than mine. I remember just last week she decided to have an argument with me regarding what dish washing product I used.. I didn't see it as a huge deal but she did. Our mindsets are different and I've realised in university you gain a sort of different understanding of things than the one you left high school with. Life, in general, does that to people..university kinda just forces you to see them quicker unless you instantly start working after high school then life hits you hard because workplace people are assholes 90% of the time.
I'm a fit person. I'm not gonna say I'm the healthiest person because I know I love my McDonalds and coke but everything in moderation, right? I exercise and keep fit as well as eat healthy most of the time so I need somebody who has that determination to look after their bodies and cares for their health.
I'm strong willed and hard headed. I set goals and pursue them and to me people who have this trait are extremely attractive because it shows they know what they want and have a plan on how to get it. I'm not the type to just sit around and say I'll do something tomorrow where tomorrow never comes.
5. Must like books
So this isn't necessarily a THING THING, it's just preferable because I realised a lot of people who don't like to read often discourage you from reading as well.
He's gotta have a plan for what he wants his life to be like, what type of job he wants and that type of shit. Basically he has to have dreams that he plans on achieving.
So yeah that is pretty much my basic list, do with it what you will but that's my honest opinion on people I would date. Of course love comes in different forms and a lot of the time a list is never met but consideration, as a girl some might want someone tall, others like shorter guys, for guys same, some like chicks with great big tits, others like girls that dont have much or any at all etc..
At least that's my take.